Timewasters

[LTR ♾️ ANR]

Scroll back a few posts, see that anon? The anon that says,

“To establish this it takes time. Stay on here for as long as you can messaging”

And closes with,

“Apologies for lecturing you, but it is my specialist subject!”

See how that person closed their account a month after posting that?

I don’t know where you think you are, and I don’t know who you think you’re listening to, but that anon ghost, and these stay-at-home zombies giving you all this horrible “just keep using the site” advice, is where you actually are. That’s where your time’s actually being wasted: messin’ around with people off this site.

If you want a relationship, this community is NOT your friend.

[Qualitydrink 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿🥰😎]

Still find it mind blowing how after making a really good connection and wanting to make plans to meet, the nerves kick in, the change of mind and actually wanting to be suckled regularly is just plain fantasy.

[Douggieboy]

GHOSTING 👻 —
This posting is in reference to a lady I met a few days ago on this site.

[Admin edit : you are not allowed to use this public forum to name other users on this site. You can talk generally about ghosting, issues, personal experiences, but specifically naming someone is not allowed.]

[Qualitydrink 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿🥰😎]

Be grateful for what you shared together. You mustn’t name others on here. Best wishes for the future Douggieboy. And thanks for your post.

[Anonymous]

I had something similar happen. I just started messaging someone, things were going well, or so I thought. We were talking about what she likes, what she wanted, what she was after, then I asked for a picture of her. She responded with “I thought you’d never ask” then sent a photo. Based on what she said and her actions up to this point, I thought it’d be ok to exchange numbers and start talking off-site. She even mentioned sending pics and videos throughout the day of her breasts, so I thought that meant actual texting.

A minute after I asked for her #, I was blocked. I don’t understand this online space at all, and this isn’t the first time it’s happened. We’re all here for two very obvious reasons. If you reciprocate that the advances are working, why shut someone down upon acting on those signals?

Sometimes I wish I had my own double D’s so I could suck on them myself lmao

[Anonymous]

Ya man I remember meeting this one lady that only had time to breastfeed for a few hours Saturday night after 10pm so after trying that a few times I had to give up, we texted an stuff and would have worked out if she had more time but she still had time for one of her gay friends to hang out but not to breastfeed lol plus she had the worst smelling breathe it’s like ladies come on were sharing each other’s breathe while breastfeeding an gum ain’t gonna cut it sheesh an men get all the blame for not showering lol

[J Herts]

@s it’s definitely a balancing act! Some people want want arrange a meet immediately and some never…. Say the wrong thing and it mess it up 😂

[Lola]

I’ve read through this entire conversation, and I can certainly understand the frustration of making plans, getting excited, and then having someone disappear. That’s disappointing, especially when genuine feelings are involved.

But I do think we need to be careful with the word “timewaster.” Someone changing their mind, needing more time, or deciding the connection isn’t quite right doesn’t necessarily mean they were never sincere.

There’s a big difference between standing someone up without a word and simply deciding not to take things further. Nobody owes us a meeting, but I do think we owe each other a little consideration.

And perhaps that’s the tricky part of all this. We’re trying to find something wonderfully intimate with people who begin as complete strangers. That’s going to require patience, honesty, and occasionally a little grace on both sides. ❤️

[Qualitydrink 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿🥰😎]

Thank you for the post Lola,

I’m sure nearly all would agree with you but for me, it’s down to the connection.
Stringing someone along with the pretences of wanting to be suckled often. Yes that’s what it says in many profiles. Yet actually, in real life, its not going to happen, pure fantasy. Timewaster.

[Lola]

I understand, QD. ❤️ And I can certainly see how disappointing it would be to invest time and genuine feelings in someone only to have things fall apart.

I think sometimes the difficulty is knowing whether someone was never sincere or whether their feelings or circumstances simply changed along the way. From the other side of the conversation, those two things can look remarkably similar.

I do hope you find the connection you’re looking for. I know it means a great deal to you. 😘

[Author]

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