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October 19, 2025 at 10:41 am #651927
Yet another timewaster, built up a great connection over 3 months, all the usual I love abf bla bla bla, strung me along never intended to meet, then deleted her account out the blue. I’ve got feelings you know. It’s gets personal daily day to day chat. Stay positive.
October 19, 2025 at 11:42 am #651938I can understand, QD, but reasons not to go through can be different. May be someone needs more time, or someone realises the other one sees things differently, or to many feelings are getting involved. Ask before you judge. In your post above you said it takes great courage to let a stranger near your breasts. Thats exactly what it is. That sounds like you understand. So it is obvious a selfrespecting woman is very careful.
I think not showing up is a no go. So disrespectful. But I cant agree on naming everyone that doesnt go through a timewaster who is living in fantasyland. I can see its disappointing if once a promise is made, a girl backs out.October 19, 2025 at 1:11 pm #651967Thanks Daisy. I understand everyone is different. Just don’t see the point on leading people on, being nosey in people’s lives to just delete your profile, didn’t even have a proper profile pic or a name. Clearly wasn’t into ABF. For that reason to me, timewaster.
October 19, 2025 at 5:27 pm #652142I’ve felt sick most of the day, like losing a friend, building such a great connection all for nothing. We are mature adults, I just don’t get why people would do that, really hurts.
October 20, 2025 at 4:03 am #652380I know that sick feeling. Sorry it happened. I agree with you that explanation would be helpful. But I do support someone and their reasons for anonymity, and their right to remove themselves from a conversation or website altogether. You can only hope that whatever pushed them away isn’t permanent, and perhaps they’ll sign back on and reach out to you.
October 20, 2025 at 7:07 am #652402There is maybe something in the profiles that mislead. No pic, why hide. Surely this is a dating site, chance to meet up. Real life.
October 20, 2025 at 1:59 pm #652438Unlucky QD, it happens. Try and give her the benefit of the doubt, buddy. She probably didn’t set out to mislead anyone and the lack of pictures might just be ultra caution. Onwards and upwards my friend ✌️
October 21, 2025 at 5:45 am #652755Thank you Ed Rester. Positive, happy and looking forward to the breast day of the week.
December 17, 2025 at 12:14 am #677520Leading upto Christmas, hopefully the start of a new year too, the timewasters who have not experienced this wonderful blessing of something so natural and felt the closeness intimacy and bonding power will realise it’s not a dream.
January 24, 2026 at 10:54 am #694414Can anyone please explain why you would go to all the efforts of making plans to meet today and yet be let down at the last possible moment. Buggers belief. I just don’t get it. Has common etiquette and curtesy gone awol.
January 24, 2026 at 2:45 pm #694476I was told just this week that this site was an ABF site, not a dating site when I suggested a social first. I then explained it was all about safety and connection etc, to be then told I was pathetic and then blocked.
Had to ask myself do these people really want to meet!January 24, 2026 at 2:50 pm #694478Its key to get expectations aligned. Hopefully a profile is clear about what someone wants. All different kinds of people here.
I am standing with you Ste: a social first is a very good idea.
And if someone wants many short encounters with all different women, be clear about it.
Honesty helps prevent disappointmentJanuary 24, 2026 at 2:56 pm #694479Absolutely agree. Today was a social meeting. Or supposed to of been. It’s hard to take sometimes, big build up, then nothing. Don’t get it.
January 24, 2026 at 2:57 pm #694480And top of this amazing site it says it is a dating site as well. Such a pity some can’t see.
January 24, 2026 at 2:59 pm #694482ABF/ANR DATING and relationships.
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