Okay, But It Can’t JUST Be the Latch or the Breasts… 😏😂

[Creamandcoffee]

It’s Sunday Funday, so let’s cause a little harmless trouble 😂😏

Whether you’re the provider or the receiver, what’s something that has NOTHING to do with ANR/ABF itself that can suddenly make someone 10x more attractive to you in that kind of dynamic? 👀

And no, “great breasts” or “a great latch” does not count. 😂 Try to behave.

I’m talking personality, physical attraction, sexual chemistry, random little quirks…a sexy voice, being genuinely funny, smelling ridiculously good, great conversation, confidence without acting like God’s gift to nipples. 😂 Maybe it’s their eyes, their hands, the way they kiss, the way they flirt, or some completely random thing you didn’t expect to find hot.

For me? Great conversation and somebody who can genuinely make me laugh gets my attention first. But someone who takes their time getting to know me and somehow knows exactly when to turn the flirting on? 😏 Yeahhhh…that combination can get dangerous. 😂

So, providers AND receivers…what’s yours? 👀

Let’s see how long everybody can behave before this thread loses its pants. 😂😇

[R N]

I am new here and wondered if such sessions always lead to physical encounters?

[TJR]

For me, intelligence. Nothing is sexier or hotter than a literate and intelligent woman, regardless of physical features!!! If you can maintain a conversation, ask questions, form complete sentences (or, even hotter, PARAGRAPHS!!) you’re 90% there. Physical attraction might not be immediate or predominant, but intellectual attraction sure is 🔥🔥🔥

[Creamandcoffee]

RN… Definitely not! I think that’s part of why I included both ANR and ABF. For some people it’s sexual, for some it’s completely nonsexual, and for others it probably depends on the person and the chemistry. That’s actually what I’m curious about here !all the little things outside of the nursing itself that make a particular dynamic feel different. 😊

[Creamandcoffee]

TJR
😂😂 PARAGRAPHS?! Well damn, finally a place where being wordy is considered foreplay.

But I get this one. Great conversation and someone who can actually make me think is definitely up there for me too. 🔥

[Jibbysheaven]

A competent man that follows through with what he says he will do, is chivalrous, shows genuine interest in getting to know me, is available to communicate and enjoys it. He has to prove he is real and will show up before I will engage in communication. I don’t just have long conversations online.

[Creamandcoffee]

Jibby..Reliability and genuine interest are definitely attractive. 👀 Someone actually doing what they say they’re going to do should not be rare, but somehow… 😂

[Paul]

For me, it’s someone who genuinely makes me laugh without trying—and I mean like ugly laughing! The kind that brings you to tears even over the smallest thing. 😂 And on the physical side, I’ve always had a thing for cheekbones. The more defined, the better! I don’t know why, I just find it so attractive.

[Creamandcoffee]

Paul
😂 The ugly laughing one is SO real. If somebody can make me laugh until I’m crying and can’t breathe a little? Yeahhh…that does something for me. 😂😏

And cheekbones is definitely a first for me 😂 but I get it. Kinda like a man with a really strong jawline…sometimes you just see it and go, “Ohhh. Okay.” 👀😂

[flow]

For me it is intelligence, voice, realistic rather than porn expectations. I also think a more active rather than passive suckler is better and if they are less into the lying in my lap as that is not as comfortable or relaxing for me and hurts my back, though it can be nice sometimes.

Yes, and I agree with others, competence and follow through are very attractive qualities.

[Bella]

Freedom is sexy.

There’s something undeniably attractive about a person who knows who they are, trusts themselves, and refuses to live their life according to someone else’s expectations.

Freedom looks like confidence without needing approval.
Peace without needing permission.
Choices without guilt.
Boundaries without apologies.
A life that actually feels like your own.

There’s a different kind of glow that comes when you stop shrinking, explaining, and asking permission to be yourself.

Authenticity is magnetic.

Freedom is sexy as hell.

[Cassius]

Aside from the personality and ability to form real connection with a person which has been mentioned along with intelligence, scent is a big one for me.

Not perfume per say but sometimes certain women just smell really nice, while wearing no perfumes or creams, to me and it is very attractive and somewhat difficult for me to explain. I can’t even describe the scent but it makes a woman absolutely more attractive to me. It’s something I’ve only experienced a handful of times, however.

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