When you do find one you trust enough to meet.
1. Meet in public. Park/ Coffee
2. Have a safe call in place
3. Set boudries. They will push them. Idc how much they claim to be a gentleman. Their hands will wonder.
4. Don’t be afraid to say “ouch, stop, repositioning, ease up on the pressure”.
5. Make sure they treat you like a lady. No man is entitled to see your boobs. Its your body, your choice. Always.. Idc if this is an anr site. An honorable man will not ask to see them before agreeing to latch.
Just my $0.2 cents for newbies.
Have fun and good luck.