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@38dddchocolatte you’ve hit the nail square on the head in your reply, as MANY women on this site have repeatedly stated. Yet the same questions keep being asked in multiple ways as to why they aren’t successful.
Thank you for taking the time to spell it out. It’s unfortunate some won’t read it.Thank you, Bella! It’s like talking to a brick wall with a lot of them, unfortunately. They want answers but only if those answers/reasons put blame and accountability off of them and onto the women they’re pursuing. Obviously WE have to lower our standards much lower to accommodate their fragile egos. Quite a sad existence if you ask me!
Anyway! Glad to have a co-sign by the beautiful women here and even a handful of men have thanked me for posting! So that’s cool too! 🙂
To quote little Wayne..”Marley I’m going in”
Consistency is key..men ask the same questions because the answers are never the same. I can.find 5 guys on here who have over 100 friends and have less than 3 sentences on their profile. I can easily name 15 female members that have less than 1 sentence or less on their profile, yet men still write them because they have pictures of their breasts.
I can only speak for myself.i wrote a long educated thoughtful deacription only to be met with rude responses from women. If you want to generalize that all men are lazy and ignorant to the needs of the women on here then also state that there are many women on here who are rude disrespectful and racist and feel entitled.
It’s interesting how you generalize the negative actions of men, for not reading or writing when that matters little..you called me out and never even asked why my profile is so short or why do I have a picture of uncle ruckus, a Satirical figure personifying racism from the boondocks??
Your response appeared long and indepth but it was your personal tirade to experiences that you had, and yet your praisesed by other women, when a man shares his negative responses obviously it’s his fault, obviously he didn’t get the hint, or he tried to “mansplain”. Most men don’t have a problem with rejection it’s human, it’s common, but men want consistency in your logic if you live in California and a guy in ny is too far for you, it should be all guys in ny right.
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It doesn’t add up, one minute women don’t have to reply. if they aren’t interested, they can just ignore you until you get the picture.. and that’s not lazy.. but a man not wanting to take 2 hours of his life to write a memoir on his page that will never be read unless he lives 6 blocks away or the same color as you..
Let’s be equal people if you expect a guy to write something profound give him a reason to. And if your not into a body type or ethnic group feel confident to put that on your page.
Ex. I prefer ages 23- 35, not interested in Asian women.. just an example
Lastly I know some people are sensitive on this site. Disclaimer. If I wrote anything to offend anyone.. I am truly sorry.
Lmao ok, pal. Do you.
I don’t have the bandwidth to continue to run around in circles with you. Most of your sorry response has already been addressed. But please, continue to tell us what some women are [also] doing to justify your poor behavior.
You are mentioning friends lists again like multiple of us didn’t already address that concern. But continue to disregard what we’ve said and formulate your own nonsense justifications.
LIKE I SAID: I KNOW who uncle rukus is and what show he comes from, but my point is I feel confident most people on this specific website do not and that might be part of your downfall. Uncle Ruckus is not a very welcoming or pleasing thing to look at, but… do you.
Take the feedback, or don’t! I’m not the one on the forum asking why I’m not successful at finding a partner. YOU ARE.
Either you get it or you don’t.
(Which you clearly don’t.)❗❗I can’t make people comprehend things that they just don’t have the intellectual capacity to understand.❗❗
Bottom line is: keep doing what you’re doing and defending your lazy messages, poor profiles, etc and deflecting the accountability from yourself to what others are doing which in turn makes you unable to change what you do.
If pointing out that some women are trash too makes you feel better about yourself, then by all means- keep doing what you’re doing bud and keep getting the same results you’ve been getting. 🤣👍🏾
🤣🤣 Madame President Jessica does have a lovely ring to it, doesn’t it?
“Woe is me” is all this sounds like.
It also seems similar to some other Jackass sounding off in the past about not getting any interest and blamed it on racism.
Dude they just aren’t into you.
Any woman dealing with this shitstorm should drop everything and run away.
P.s. Your disclaimer at the end is pure D Bullshit.It appears as though the OP has also pissed me off at some stage in the past as I have him blocked.
Wow Jessica!! If my mind could speak freely it would be with your voice. Best thing I’ve read on the internet. Thank you. Shame the men that need to read your words won’t
I was going to say something about the Uncle Ruckus avatar, it seems it fits Marcus well. if you come off like Ruckus you should except the same results, and people that know what the Uncle Ruckus character represents will keep you at arms length if they response to you at all.
Come on everyone, let’s find Jessica the perfect partner to match her intelligence, wit, and goodwill. Jessica you have displayed remarkable courage and patience, thank you. You are a real nurturer!
Really love what the womens responded with here.
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re: “Maybe don’t have your breasts as your profile pic if you’re looking to date?”—-I’m a private person and I know from experience this world is pretty small and I don’t want some neighbor, coworker or acquaintances to come across my FACE on a fetish site.
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