Hello! New to the group!

[Way2]

Hello everyone! I just wanted to poke in and say hello. I’m fairly new to ANR/ABF. I’ve dry suckled before, initially thinking “oh, it’s just sucking nipples in porn, blahblahblah” and the. My eyes were opened to the overwhelmingly nurturing feeling of what it is to be embraced as you latch on. I figured it was something you do when you’re in a relationship, if your partner is into it. And if not, well, it looks cool on my phone.

I was elated to discover a few subreddits dedicated to lactation and ANR/ABF. I read and read and finally discovered that there was a site for like-minded folks that explore this further and here I am. It was more than a couple, actually. To be honest, this one is my favorite so far. I think Michael and anyone that helps maintain this are tremendous. This site is far beyond the UI on similar sites.

Anywho, I just wanted to introduce myself. I am very interested in learning more and being active in the community. Might as well get cozy. I’m always open to chats/dms for chatting about this topic!

[LadyOceana]

@waytowastetime welcome! What a wonderful introduction post which led me to read your profile which was also great to read.

Hope you find the warmth and sense of belonging here that’s been so prevalent in my experience.

[Way2]

Thank you for the feedback! I’m so very looking forward to chatting with everyone about their love of suckling!

[Way2]

@sh8oon

I can’t help you too much in that department, friend. I’ve only been here for about a month or so.

I think I’m going to treat it as if I were interacting with a person in front of me. Approach them with engaging conversation related to learning more about abf/anr and really see what you can take in from what they have to say.

I get that this stuff goes hand-in-hand with sex and that side of things. If I’m being honest, telling someone what you want to do to them vs telling someone what you’d like to know and learn from them are two very different doors that are marked quite clearly. There’s a time and place for that type of talk and that vibe should be pretty clear due to you actually talking to them.

But yeah man, my best advice would be just be kind and conversational. We’re here to learn and hopefully form some lasting connections and discover new things together. I hope to be an active part of the community soon. Based off of what I’ve read, we’re in it for the long haul. It seems that it can be quiet some time before we’ll ever actually meet with someone, apparently. So we’ll need to be patient and understanding and not take out our frustrations on other people.

All in all; don’t talk about it, be about it. I’m going to really start getting into more conversations about abf/anr and really make this a part of my life. We need to manifest it into existence and we’re going to do that by learning from these nice people, being open and accepting, work on our charm and conversation skills, and treat everyone we interact with with respect. Everything we do needs to be consensual, we have too many assholes fucking things up for nice men that are here to learn. By here I mean community, not the site. I haven’t known anyone here long enough to say, other than those I’ve talked to have been exceptionally nice.

You’ll always catch more of anything with honey, and if you’re lucky, you can top it off with a swig of that sweet sweet milk we’re dying to try.

[Treasure Chest]

@waytowastetime I logged in specifically to point out to the men in the community that this here ^^^^ is exactly how you create value. Articulate, respectful, thoughtful, protective, and hopefully the same in DM as he is in forum. This energy elevates conversation and the relaxation of women on the site, and relaxed women blossom into their femininity more easily.

Extra kudos for having this mindset at such a young age.

[Way2]

@treasurechest

Thank you for the kind words! I certainly hope I don’t disappoint! I feel like my success with the women in my life is really just creating an environment that’s strong in comfort, fun, thoughtfulness, and attention. I guess it can sound like a lot of plates to spin, but honestly it comes naturally if you’re able to carry conversation and the other person also shares interest. It turns into second nature at a point.

And boy, the horror stories I’ve heard of how some people are approached. It’s disheartening. Not only that, it salts the wound by really making it seem like that’s all the internet has to offer. And that really fucking blows.

I can’t go to my local library and put up a poster asking for an adult nursing mentor. I can’t ask anyone I know what their experiences are with it and if they can recommend anything to learn more. The internet is really my only source of discovering more and then there’s the massive wall of defense put by most women I’d be interested in conversing with due to the unrelenting barrage of dick pics and “hey” “nice tits” messages they get on the daily. Friends of mine on sites similar to this have literally hundreds of messages to sort through before they’ll get to mine, if ever.

My biggest point being, it gets very difficult and mentally taxing throwing out messages, about something you really are interested in exploring, into what seems to be a void of nothingness. And what sucks the most is that maybe things could be better for all of us if we just spoke to each other as we wanted to be spoken to.

Maybe it won’t make much of a difference at all, but at least it’s a glimmer of hope for the ones who’ve experienced meaningful relationships via online interactions.

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