🛑Ladies, We Need to Talk About Safety! 🛑

[sensual310]

I go through this entire process too. It’s great to hear that other women do the same!

If anyone is in St Louis, MO. I will be glad to go with you in person as your “wing lady.” Safety in numbers, also to have support during the meeting and accountability.

Thank you Lola for sharing!!❤️😊

[Lola]

@sensual310 🩷

THIS is women looking out for women! Offering to actually show up and be someone’s wing lady is such a great idea.

And I love that this conversation is making us realize how many of us already have our own little safety systems in place. The more we share them, the more options we give each other.

St. Louis ladies, you officially have a wing woman. 🫶🏻

[Mr.French]

Damn !

[@mobchip]

I’m genuinely glad to see your reply, @sensual310. Safety has to be top priority for everyone, guys and women alike, and having a wing person or check-in system in place just takes all the unnecessary stress out of meeting up. Much respect to you for being there for others.

[Gigi]

I am so glad you posted this… this should be posted every 6 months just as a reminder

I was told by a guy who his having a hard time find a woman on this site, “women here are too picky. They ask too many questions”.

Thank you

[Lola]

@mr-french 😎

Mr. French! I rendered you speechless?! I’m not sure whether to be proud or concerned. This may be your shortest post in ABF history. 🤓

[Lola]

@saffron 🫶🏻

“Women here are too picky. They ask too many questions.”

Well…that statement just answered a few questions all by itself. 🙄

If a woman wanting to know who the hell she’s meeting feels like too much work, she probably isn’t the reason you’re having trouble finding one. 😉

Ask ALL the questions, ladies! 🩷

[Nick]

Sorry for late reply. Well I’d say video chatting as you said. And would preferably meet in a public setting first.

[Lola]

No apologies necessary, Nick! Both are good places to start. I especially appreciate hearing men recognize the importance of meeting publicly first. A little patience and consideration go a long way toward making a woman feel comfortable.🫶🏻

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