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Had an interesting exchange @dairydaisy the other day that got me thinking.
There seems to be an assumption that a lot of women on this site are put off by “mummy/baby roleplay” dynamics. True or not, there’s no clear way to distinguish between “roleplayers” and “non-roleplayers” on profiles.
Right now, the only related option is the “Looking for” prompt, and that just limits you to selecting “Male” or “Female.” It doesn’t really clarify preferences or boundaries when it comes to roleplay vs. non-roleplay interactions. As it stands, people can only use their “about me” section, and others have to infer from that, which leaves room for confusion. Also, a lot of profiles are unclear because the person writing could just be unaware of this confusion.
It would be useful to have a simple option on profiles to indicate this, like a tag or toggle for “Roleplayer” or “Non-roleplayer,” maybe under the “Looking for” section. It could reduce confusion, avoid misunderstandings, and help people connect with others who want the same thing.
For clarity, I fall into the “non-roleplayer” group. I have a hunch some people assume otherwise when they read my personal profile or long-form posts, I’d rather it be clear I’m not, since I’m not getting any responses coming off as a “roleplayer.” In which I reiterate, I am not a “roleplayer.”
As the title says, Roleplayer or Non-Roleplayer? Profiles Should Say It. Stop Guessing! 🙂
Also curious where others stand. Are you a “roleplayer” or “non-roleplayer?”
It’s not as simple as you make it sound and that’s understandable if you have not done any research. Not everyone who sees themself as ‘mummy’ ‘daddy’ or ‘baby’ consider it as rollplay. They are obviously adults but encompass certain behaviours into their everyday life so ‘roll play’ would be an insult – as if they don’t really mean it. (Though some just that)
I would also add that not everyone is a ‘roll player’ but would engage in something of that nature within a certain dynamic. It’s all about how 2 people get along and how their relationship develops. You also need to leave room for those who are on the road of discovery – no way they would label themselves that way.
Hope that helps. 🥰
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