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I don’t believe a majority of members in this website are serious about connecting or finding partners, after many years of transparency and attempt to talk and learn more about people. prove me wrong!
I don’t think it’s a problem with people being serious. it’s more of an issue that a lot of guys are immature and are inappropriate towards women. after many inappropriate and immature messages a lot of women have become jaded, truthfully I don’t blame them. As men we need to stop seeing them as fantasy dispensers and instead see them as the intricate beautiful people that they are. In no way am I saying that I’m perfect, I now know in my early days I wrote some really bad messages and for that I’m sorry.
What Brian said. Just because I won’t give a stranger my home address or send sexy pics does not mean I am not serious about wanting to meet a real partner.
Can’t blame the website. I have to say being very visible on the site always helps with the comfort level. At the same time, really horrible experiences with guys leaves a horrible feeling in my mouth. At the same time wonderful people are also there. But I hear you. Don’t give up. Your profile suggests a sensitive person that any woman would like to get to know more. Talking to people about this helps.
Everyone is here for their own reasons. They don’t have to explain them or justify them to anyone else, regardless of what their intentions are.
Don’t give up brother I’ve been here since the site was created. Had many experiences long and short. Just have to be patient and do your own thing and check on the site occasionally. It took me a long time to realize this. Doesn’t help that its niche so there isn’t a big pool of people to interact with. It’s probably for the best. Speaking from experience. Haven’t given up yet.
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