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I’ve often read lots of profiles with looking for an ANR as opposed to just ABF. R Equals relationship so it’s way more involved than ABF. But how do you start, surely you can’t go straight into an ANR with anyone without having ABF first. Building the connection and friendship mean a lot. For anything else that takes time but how much time should one give or wait.
I think you answered the question…build the connection and friendship and/or romance first. Date. Spend time together getting to know one another. Then increase the intimacy which can start with nursing…
It really depends on the two people and what they are looking for or their circumstances.
1. Some may look for casual ABF, where there is no relationship element involved and is just ABF
2. Some may look for ABF with potential to turn to ANR
3. Some may look for ANR without ABF first, like Yogi said, to date and establish the relationship first.
4. Lastly, it may be a relationship first, that discovers ANR.I think relationship is less about time as a quota or limit to pass, but the depth of the connection.
I am with Way.
Conclusion: get clarity on what expectations of both are and respect each other. If expectations do not match, its a no go. Dont push or try to convince the other. Respect boundaries.Connection is key. Thats built over time. Do not rush into it, don’t push.
Thanks for all your replies. Mainly building the connection and proper dating first. For an ANR from the start.
ANR. So the R could mean regular, adult nursing regular, like a lot of times, more frequent, building a relationship that has ABF at the heart. But I’m still in the mind of you can’t form a relationship unless you start with ABF. So looking for ANR after ABF has been passed with both wanting more together forming the ANR.
Clear as mud I know.I would still say that is it possible without starting with ABF. The best example would probably be those that have a relationship first, get married, have kids, then discover that they are into ANR.
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