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Ladies (and gents as well), where do you feel most comfortable when you are nursing? I know some people prefer the comfort of their own home, there’s nothing like laying down on your couch or in bed. However, some people prefer to go somewhere else.
Where do you feel most at place?Definitely. Not in a car. It’s not comfortable or even fun.
A hotel tends to be my favorite and safest. And usually I will get the room. And the guy will either offer to buy or share cost, once ive explained my stance. And it’s Not because I can’t afford it, but its for my safety and sanity.
Quick story..but my truth.
I had 1 bad incident close to 15 years ago that has changed the way I intiate trust. I tell this story to bring awareness and to emphasize to prioritize safety.I went to a guy’s house whom had 3 locks on the door. I heard the 3 locks, lock once I entered, but I did not see a key actially lock the door from the inside.
After, a short discussion. It was obvious we were not a match. (He smoked) and I just got a creepy vibe.
I texted a “code” word for a phone call to be made so I could leave. When I got the call that my kid was sick. I got and walked to the door. I began unlocking it and he leaned into the door…holding it closed, and asked if I could come back.
With fear..I asked him to move and tried to open the door. It was locked still after unlocking the 3rd lock.
He pulls out a key…and says I was a tease. Luckily .. my phone rang again. And they were shouting.. thru the phone “where are you???”.
He unlocked the door. I have no idea what would of happened and his profile was deleted.
Scared..me.
The 2nd call was in place 3 min after the 1st to ensure I got out…safe.
Sorry I didn’t mean to hijack this post..but. thru experience for both sexes…protect yourself.
Which is why…hotels. will always bring me comfort.
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I feel like the biggest factor is the partner. I’ve had some amazing nursing in a car with the right partner. It’s really fun to nurse on the boat though, on a secluded lake.
I am with btrfly. Never invite somebody i dont know in my house ( he knows where i live) and never go to his house either. Takesvtime. So: hotel is fine, things like that
I like the hotel option too. I usually arrange and pay for it and I feel safer at a neutral venue too – yes, some situations can also be scary for men.
Btrfly, that sounds like a majorly frightening incident so well done for having such an effective escape method prearranged – that is a really good piece of advice.
Cripes Butterfly that was a close call! Good planning on your part to have fail safe.
I never ask to meet at their place nor do I suggest mine. After the initial meeting someplace public we can make plans for a hotel or a park.
A back seat of a Ford F350 crew cab can be quite spacious in February.😜
My preference is a park on a balmy day. 🤗🥰I would echo the hotel option. But for regular sessions, it can get kind of expensive.
I had one short term partner who would meet me for an extended lunch. We met at a local cemetary, and she came to my truck where I lay in her lap. I am a tall guy, so I was kind of “pretzeled” up, but I didn’t care. It was bliss.
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