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Hello,
I’m curious to know how long would you wait to meet a potential partner in person. If you both were looking for the same thing, appear to have chemistry on the phone and in chat. Also, if they were very far from local. This may only apply to those of us who have no one within 6 hours driving that they could potentially meet in person. Say they were cross country, of course life happens I know we’re all busy.
How much time and energy would you invest in someone you’ve not met in person yet ?I’ll try my best to make it happen if everything is ok. But as you said, sometimes life comes in between. There is a way as long as there is a will.
I am always optimistic and hope for the best.The entire concept of lactation through breast stimulation is based on timely consistency.
Ideally it would be wonderful if everyone lived next door to each other, but all too often what appears to be the ideal partner isn’t for a variety of reasons, I.e. relationship status, relationship dynamics differences, scheduling, life’s illnesses, life’s traumas, and life in general.
Given your intended is 6 hours or more from you in local I’d seriously consider a couple options, #1 move to a better ANR populated area, #2 not everyone subscribes to ANR sites, take a deeper look into life style groups, #3 rethink lactating.
The time limit is a moving target. There are some folks that are friends that I don’t see how I’d ever possibly meet mainly due to being continents away. There are others in North America I’d love to meet though schedule distance and time conspire against us.
If we lived within two hours distance of each other I’d like to meet within a month of getting to know each other. Further than that, possibly two to four months. Hopefully that helps to answer your question. Whoo whoo!I think it boils down to trust level. Also how strong of a connection you have built up, and chemistry.
Living in a heavily populated place like London, meeting can be super fast.
This evening (well yesterday) a case in point.
We were barely 5 minutes into our phone call when he admitted that he’d be happy to see me “tonight” if the invitation were there. I confirmed said invitation.
This was at 2230 hours.
He was with me before midnight. And our evening began in the lift going upstairs when I hauled out my hooters, upon which he latched until we arrived at my floor..
He departed barely an hour ago. Our mutual needs explored heartily. A rematch on the cards. He may even bring along his girlfriend who’s expressed an interest in being on the receiving end.
I’m fully making hay while the sun shines. And it clearly shines in London.
I haven’t always been this lucky.
I once lived in a small town in Scandinavia. The Internet was in its relative infancy. And my location was almost middle of nowhere. As a woman of colour, I stuck out like a sore thumb so couldn’t afford to slip up socially. I had to add discretion to the scarcity.
Basically, like someone in this thread said, if personalities are in sync and the opportunity presents, I’ll move as swiftly as the other.
I’m not looking for a lifetime partner. Fewer boxes to tick.
I think time frames are irrelevant. There is no “correct” amount of time in which chemistry, trust and friendship are built. This is mostly trusting your gut instints in all cases. When I first ventured out into the world of ANR, I met my partner within 3 weeks. after texting, emailing, Skype for the first 3 days strait. We were inseparable. The chemistry was magnetic. I knew he was going to be magical. And he was.
I have yet to get that kind of THAT spark replicated..
I truely believed he is my soul mate!
You can’t build trust and chemistry.. if the communication is weak! 2 word sentences every once in awhile.. are sad and pathetic. They are quickly dismissed as a possible..intetest.
Just saying.
Ps. I married that first guy. Now, we seek a different kind of adventure!
When a person takes the time to get to know you. If you find you have mutual passions and a desire for the wonderful bond and connection ANR brings together. When you agree how long and often you desire the person and ANR….you find the time for each to make it happen asap.
I’m in no hurry to meet up with someone. I enjoy the getting to know each other, which is often times a lot easier to do online than in person. I’m more open and represent myself better in text than in person. I know most want to meet immediately, which I don’t get. I’m not impatient. If we are meant to meet, it will happen. If not 🤷♀️ I’m good with online friends.
@sweetdarkcanvasuk
Thanks for sharing, that’s a hot story! I can appreciate a woman who goes after what she wants.@nickny thank you Nick, I appreciate your optimism.
@grogman thanks Grog
@pawsda23 thanks tot. I’m looking for life partner, so I’m reasonable but cast a wide net too.
@btrfly Thanks for sharing about how you met your partner and that you both just knew you were meant. I mean your husband. It’s really quite beautiful and romantic.
You’ve made me smile and given me hope, I’m a romantic at heart.
I hope you find what you’re looking for in your next adventure my dear. Hugs 🤗@knighting11
Thanks, spoken like a believer in love.
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