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In keeping with the current size theme.
Is there such a thing as breasts too large?I prefer a partner that’s on a large side, because it feels better, better latch, more to caress. My preference.
Not just for pure (pardon the pun) titillating. I prefer a partner G cup minimum.Certainly is a thing as too large, I would’ve gotten a reduction years ago if I had the money. Its painful, embarrassing, socially awkward, bras are expensive and very little to choose from, they always get in the way, made breastfeeding difficult
Isn’t this just yet another post which exemplifies what so many of the women on this site get upset about? Objectifying women based on their breast size?? Personally, I want a connection with someone that goes a lot deeper than whether she’s a B cup or a G cup. Whatever your preferences are… what message does it send to women if you post them publicly? Shouldn’t this post come with a disclaimer that says “if you have small breasts, you may not want to read this post?”
SMH. Seriously.No I don’t. I think all sizes and shapes should be appreciated.
I am currently on the adventure to lose weight (yay) and swimming so I am excited to lose couple of sizes down! Yes, too big exists. I have considered that my DDD/F for a moment would need reduction for health reasons if I didn’t lose weight. I got on a right track and as long as I go to C cup, I will be very happy! C is considered a large breasts in a slim/athletic women! I used to be athletic so I can tell. It is embarrassing to be even DD size when I am dropping my pounds. Hard to find anything that looks normal on me. Can’t weight to go back to the size that is easy to maintain for me.
Yes, from a non suckling female perspective.
No woman wants to be in pain or discomfort from her large breasts or get unwanted attention often either. Being harassed or being ogled isn’t fun or comfortable, I can assure you.
Like Jessa said, clothing, bras and the like are pricey as well. My sister in law got her breast reduction covered through insurance and she’s so much happier and self confident now.
Since being in this site for two years, I have thought about reduction myself. The obsession with size from the men on here has been such a huge turn off and left me feeling that I’d never want to be with one those men who are size obsessed. It’s just so shallow.
For men, is there such a thing as too big. I don’t know, hopefully it’s the person behind the breasts that the guy enjoys too.I’m at the other end of that spectrum….My career for 31 years was supervising and leading thousands of soldiers, 75% of which were men, 15% gay or bisexual women. I don’t ever recall being uncomfortable about my 30DDD size throughout the career.
Because I never noticed I had breasts, much less their size while running, marching, crawling, or advancing throughout that career I never noticed them until I became a member here. Once I decided to induce last year and they started to get bigger, now 38F I’ve learned to enjoy getting larger and hope to eventually get to a 36J.
From the standpoint of back aches, I can understand that physiologically. Though through core support and a more active rather than sedentary standpoint a lot of lower back issues can be overcome.
Costs, yeah larger size bras and lingerie is exceedingly difficult to find and expensive. I’m 100% retired and have a pretty good retirement income so I don’t fuss much over cost of anything, but for many on a set income and budget, I do remember those limited income and expense days.
I guess it would depend on each woman and how she feels about herself. I know that the big areola/big nipples posts can be equally upsetting for some women but are posted a lot.
I think there’s the understanding that guys tend to be visual, and that is going to be a criteria for them when trying to find someone. So the question is a valid one, especially when you consider that the main visitors here are men.
I’m a size D. It is neither here nor there to me. I like my breasts, but if a guy is going to make a determination on whether or not he’s attracted to me strictly based on size, then maybe having smaller breasts is in my benefit.
I don’t want my breast size to be what a relationship revolves around. That being said, if the guys here are more focused on size than a person, then there wouldn’t be much point for me to stick around because I’m not providing anything they would want. I can stop wasting time and move on, so that makes it a valid question as well.
Hi Grog,
I personally agree with the fact that the size is a sensitive issue for some women and men (in terms of possibly being asked about other body parts). Breast size/shape is determined by a lot of things and sometimes also what a women goes through in life. I personally know many women with a cup under the D size who have been told that they are too small for this site. So any focus on size as the main topic will get a variety of people responding and finally at the end of it, people may not remember much in a few months except possibly that bigger is better. There are many women who have put implants to get bigger and bigger. Physical looks only last for so long and then what do we do. The man might swap a women for a younger one because he is so shallow in depth of perception, driven only by outward looks or believing that men should give importance to size. Sorry I went on for too long 🙂
Hi Kay,
Your post resonated with me, thank you, I totally agree.
I like myself plenty and i am not uncomfortable about what I look like or who I am one bit.
Everyone has different lives and experiences to share. 🙂 To each thier own I say.Size is not important, but the imagination and compatibility is a must!
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