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Ladies, when do you feel its the appropriate time to share a breast pic?
– After a day or longer of chatting
-If there is a connection
-Do you send unsolicited pictures?
-Before you plan to meet up
-NeverMen, When do you feel its appropriate to ask for breast pics?
-Right off the bat, show me the goods!
-After a day or longer of chatting
-If there is a connection
-Before we plan to meet up
-NeverThere is no right answer but was mentioned in one of my private chats today. I thought it would be interesting to hear others thoughts.
*This post is not meant to harass women for pictures based on their replies but for a knowledge when communicating*
Everyone is different. I can’t speak for others.
I usually don’t ask. It should not come up until you both feel some kind of connection and closeness. For me, it is more about feeling emotional connection.I prefer to share when there is a connection or we are planning to meet. If asked depending on the flow of the conversation it may be granted otherwise I’m not just sending out pics.
The beauty of this site is that they aren’t saved in the chat however, you can’t stop someone from taking a screen shot. My face is in none of my breast pics just for that reason.
I think if there is a connection and a planned meet up. But that’s usually a play by ear, case by case basis.
For me I have never asked. Because once you’ve had time together chatting and Getting to know each other and after you’ve had a moment to meet and both are comfortable in moving forward then that moment will present itself.
I would never ask. If a connection is made, such things are possible. No one should feel any obligation to share anything. Trust and safety is paramount.
I do not have any hard rules in the context of sexting, whether its just for fun or with someone I’m in a relationship with. In my past relationships I have never sent nudes before a few dates, and I do not send them unsolicited. I’m not opposed to sending them, I think a lot of it would depend on how the idea comes up.
If I were going to have a platonic nursing session I probably wouldn’t send pics if I were asked, it really depends on timing, context, and how the subject comes up. I have had 3 platonic nursing partners in the past, none of them ever asked to see pics, and I never offered. It never occurred to me to offer since I was not looking at it from a sexual encounter aspect. Maybe that is the reason why they didn’t ask? I’m now curious, and unfortunately I do not have a way of contacting them lol.
I would prefer a woman hold off on the breast pics until after we have become a couple and we both know there is stroong chemistry between us. Usually that happens after the first time we have sex together.
There is hope yet, with some of these responses. Thank you
I use to get alot of “you’re on a tit site, why are you so offended when I asked for a pic”!
It’s rather alarming of the inappropriate, entitlement personna I’ve encountered over the years.
Answer for me: When I feel safe and ready too. When the chemistry is there and I trust the individual.
It’s a turn off to be asked for one. I don’t send tit pics. Maybe if I was planning on meeting. I bombard one im in a relationship with. That’s different
Personally, I think a photograph never is necessary for the woman. As I understand it, size, shape, symmetry, and composition of the breasts are irrelevant to supply and induction. Why would a suckling partner need to know such beforehand? The nursing gift the woman is giving is her milk, not her breasts. Of course I do understand that SWF photographs of the candidate partner can be very important in engendering trust in the woman to know that the partner is presenting themselves fairly and honestly. But I don’t see a need in the other direction.
As I type this, I think the woman is not in a competition, but the partner is in a competition for the woman’s attention and permission. The woman offering must be in the driver’s seat to choose the partner. She doesn’t have to expose herself to attract attention. She is giving enough of herself with the permission to continue.
I’m rather inclined to think it’s best not to share breast pics at all, unless the woman chose to do so. For one thing, anything you share in pics could end up, however unlikely, being seen by someone else, with disastrous results. Also, if you don’t yet know someone well enough to tell f they’re a good match for you, then you shouldn’t share too much in case they turn out to be a bad egg.
For me, I don’t ask a woman if she’s ever happy to share photos of her breasts. I prefer to wait until we’re both comfortable to try suckling together, so that magical first reveal is part of the excitement. And even afterwards, I still won’t ask her to send me any pics, because it just doesn’t compare to seeing and feeling them in person in the moment. If she chooses to share a pic or two, maybe of some new lingerie or nursing bra to whet my appetite, then that’s fine.
If and when she feels comfortable. I would never ask. If all goes to plan, I’ll have them in my face at some point, if it doesn’t work out there was no point in seeing them anyway.
There’s only a limited number of acceptable responses anyway. If you get too enthused a out them. You’d probably come off as weird, if you’re not enthused enough she may think you aren’t interested. I want an ABF to relax, not think about this kind of stuff.
I think it depends on how comfortable you are sharing pictures of your breast. As a rule if it is someone I going to meet, I will send them pictures.
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