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Hello fellow anr lovers, I’ve been on this app for a while now and trying several other apps and websites but I can’t find a partner. I’ve only ever tried this with my ex and with someone I met on reddit. Other than that I haven’t been able to find a partner. A lot of women are already looking for experienced older sucklers, which I have no problems with, but the market seems to be dry for younger guys like me. Is there any tips or tricks to finding anyone that’s into anr? I feel like I’m starting to get burnt out on looking for someone and this feels like a fantasy now. Please any advice is helpful, thank you all!
I would venture to say that not many women your age have been introduced to this yet…make it your mission to do so….gently and with respect.
You may want to first find a girlfriend or “partner”, who is open-minded, and who enjoys a lot of breast play. The more sensitive the nipples, the better. Suggest to her that this might be fun to try…and you might be surprised that she’d be interested and willing to make it part of your relationship.
Good luck.
Thank you for the advice, I appreciate it! I’ve been trying to find a partner as well, but I’m sick of apps and websites. I think it’s time to go old school and meet people in clubs, bars, and just in public. Definitely need to work on my confidence when approaching women haha, haven’t done this in a while. Thanks again for the advice!
Your not alone buddy, in my opinion they want someone older cause it usually comes down to how they can relate better to the older men and experience etc etc it’s kinda unfair cause for example I could have as much suckling experience as an older man but my age puts them off and that’s just how it is so I can’t argue with that, however some ladies do go for younger ones but it solely depends on their preferences of men, so my best suggestion is just go for it and do your best and don’t worry about being rejected it’s all apart of life, let rejection teach you to deserve better.
Thank you jay, I appreciate the advice!
Best advice I can give you really is to complete your profile, ensuring that you provide some background about yourself and what it is you’re searching for.
I don’t believe that age is the problem, but maturity is and unfortunately younger men are seen as immature by ladies (not just on ABFH either).
Good Luck in your search!
Agree with above your profile could be doing with a bit of work. For me personally I am into older mature men. I just have had enough shitty experiences with younger men to last a lifetime even ones who appeared mature at the outset eventually showed their immaturity. Also not in a million years would i be into anyone who is young enough to be my child. That would scream mommy son dynamic which I am just not into.
Also abf/anr is as rare as hens teeth. People have looked and waited years, some never finding anyone for this. At 22 years of age my advice would be live life, look elsewhere for a relationship and hopefully introduce them to abf. Also i find women who have pierced nipples are more into breast play. Just something to ponder if you ever meet someone with them.
Whatever you do good luck
Me personally, I fond kost ypunger men are only in it for the experience, an NSA situstion, and nothing more. If they are into a LTR, they want to be a “kept boy” and honestly, I’m tired of caring for other people. Period. I’m 52, single and not pookong for another person to provide for.
I don’t have an issue with younger guys in general. I find I can relate to them pretty well. But when it comes to a sexual situation, I fond it ends up being all about them, their sexual needs and not much else. I’m in this for me. Supplying an experience for someone else holds little interest to me
All I can say, is come as a friend and expect nothing. You’ll get farther.
Wow that’s pretty helpful, especially with about the women with the piercing, I never knew that. Thanks for the advice you guys are awesome!
I think age does play a role. Being on the young side of the issue is one thing, but there definitely is an age that is considered too old. I’m on the upper end of the issue and I routinely get the “I’m looking for someone more my age” answer. I did find a lady last week that said she was 75 and did not respond back to my message.
I guess she was looking for someone younger! Next to not finding someone that lives even sort of close to me, I think being old hinders finding a partner. It is what it is, and I’m not “throwing in the towel” yet…Hmm I guess we’re nothing having issues being on both sides, but I’m not giving up either
Sadly I am new on here I say sadly because I have chatted with lots of peeps.
I have found that some are wanting actually more than suckling & full friends with benefits.i do not make any judgement but why not be totally honest in their profile.
Some want to collect naughty pictures and Kik so that it then turns into a free naughty chat line.
I don’t want to make it an age thing.
I suppose I just want totally honest I don’t think that is too much to ask for.I too agree that I’m not into the younger guys, however I think if you find a “like” minded lady your age who is open to exploring fetish\kinks and lifestyle maybe she would lactate or enjoy dry suckling
@hauss69 – That’s the attitude! Age is a factor, but folks have different needs, and you’ll find a fine lady with similar needs. Stay true to your suckling desires.
Honesty and common decency are not too much to ask for Ginny. I’ll throw in proper grammar and the ability to form some semblance of a sentence, not too much to ask of adults either. Don’t lower your bar!
You deserve it, I do and everyone deserves it. But sadly, there are many men who are cowards on this site and every site I have ever looked for a partner on.
Wanting fwb is fine, just be honest so you don’t waste anyone’s time. You will be found out eventually, so be honest from the start.
For the men that lie and say they live, or are moving close to you, say they are single, or are visiting in order to sext or live some fantasy life are really special assholes in my book. These losers, who go out of their way, to lie, put up a front and mess with women’s emotions for their own fleeting self gratification make them low life scum who deserve to never ever suckle on a woman’s breast ever again. I hope that they get hurt and fucked over twice as much as the women they have lied to, wasted thier time ans/or hurt. 🤗
My best advice is to be very skeptical, ask questions, wait to open up to him until you’ve meet in person and trust your instincts.
Be on guard for men who say they are moving to the area, men who ask for pics right away, men who live far away from you, men who want to talk about nursing right away. I recommend that you use the voice feature on here and use voice chat on here after you’ve friended them and feel comfortable chatting
I’ve had many men tell me, they are not on the site much, can we Kik, it’s easier for me etc, Look out, this is another warning sign if they want to get off the site right away, they are up to something. I always say I’m more comfortable here and don’t want to go off the site. If they are decent people with good motives, they won’t care.
There is no reason when you’re just chatting with people to take it off site right away or if one person is not ready to do so. See how much they really want to talk and get to know you. The problem with KIK and reddit are that cowards can hide behind the fact that you don’t know who they are and cannot find out.
If a man complains that you won’t open up or are shut down, he really needs pics, or continues to push you past your comfort zone, because you won’t play their silly game, tell the piece of shit to fuck off😊 you deserve better.
A man who is genuinely interested in you will be patient, take his time getting to know you and never push you to do or be anything you’re not comfortable with.
He’ll be the one who will get the breasts and the rest too. ❤️
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