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Hello there!
I’m looking for a somewhat maternal and/or vaguely dominant nickname my partner can call me while we nurse; he said my name and his common terms of endearment for me don’t feel quite right. We’ve tried but found that “mommy” simply doesn’t work for either of us, though the spirit of it absolutely does fit. Any ideas?
Bonus points! What’s your favorite nursing position and why?
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MadamThat’s all i can think of right now. As for position, if i’m not sleepy it’s sitting up watching TV, if near bedtime i would say laying sideways.
Honey Bunny or Hon Bun for short.
For the extra credit I have two favorites positions
1) laying side by side on the bed, or outside on a blanket either will do. It is a nice relaxing way to share the breastfeeding experience. It’s wonderful to doze off when sated. It’s also very nice to wake her up with a suckle.
2) when continuing eroticism after breastfeeding I like to lay on my back. Her on hands and knees perpendicular to me. She moves over me lowering her breasts to be suckled and we can explore each other further.
Truth be told, I haven’t found a bad position whilst breastfeeding.
I hope that answers your question.My Lady.
Give it a try!Bonus:
Side by side because it’s intimate and comfortable for hoursI’m rather proud of the nicknames I’ve come up for previous partners, but it would be a shame to just recycle any of those. Maternal and/or vaguely dominant is a good start, “mother-bear” comes to mind. Perhaps some background to craft something more personal?
As of favorite nursing positions, one that’s tricky but sometimes spectacular is to sit upright, she’s in your lap straddling you, face to face. Requires a good sofa for your back and good posture from both participants, but worth it. I like the way that she would lean into me, having my head engulfed in the space between her belly and both breasts.
@mn2535 – My partner is my husband, who is also the dominant partner in our BDSM D/s dynamic. Mommy does not work well for us because he is Daddy to me. For the same reason overtly dominant names don’t feel authentic for us either, as we don’t feel a switch in our positions when we nurse. He says it is the only time he ever feels he can completely let go and not be “on,” not be in control; it feels like I am the anchor, like I am the center that holds. I feel especially protective of him when we nurse, I feel all kinds of comforting and loving. It’s all still very new and confusing, in the best of ways.
In such a situation personally, I would address you as “Princess”, as I have in correspondence with others I have met here who seem to appreciate it. It commands respect, while at the same time can be diminutive to me as “Daddy” (certainly not reflexive to me as “King” in English, though one woman temporarily on ABFH addressed me as Mi Rey which I liked very much). I say “Princess” in high respect and regard of the woman who is something very special, and it seems to be accepted very well. I hope this is helpful.
Thank you for sharing, Alice. The vibe I’m getting feels like being “A Warm Oasis” for your partner, or something like that. Honestly I’m conflicted on what sort of nickname would suit this best. Still leaning more towards something animalistic, though. Might need some more time before something better comes to mind.
This is a very interesting topic.
In my admittedly limited experience with this, I’ve found that women who are at least 15 years my senior are a lot more accomodating of being called mummy. Some have even initiated and asked me if it’s weird that they want to be called mummy. One lady albeit having been chatting for over a week, without warning or build up to it, just typed ‘mummy really needs to feed you’.
I say all that to say, with all the inherently maternal aspects of nursing I’ve always wondered why some ladies do not want to be called mummy, going as far as to explicitly state that on their profile. What you’ve said here about the dynamics of your relationship perhaps goes a long way to explaining why this might be the case even if most are not in a BDSM D/s, but I would love to hear from more women how they feel about it and why.
To answer your original question though, it really depends. I mostly use the typical nicknames like babe etc but I have used the word mummy when asked to do so and it felt normal. To them it was a term of endearment, so there was nothing weird or disturbing about it.
There’s a few interesting ones here:
Im a mother and he calls me mam,mammy,mom etc depending on his humour or what hes looking for. He is a child and i gave birth to him. The thoughts of a grown man calling me that doesnt sit well with me at all. But thats me and im ot here to judge how others refer to each other.
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