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A lot of recent posts seem to be despairing an inability to find a partner, or wondering about the differences between what the men and women here are looking for.
A Buddhist would say that our own desires and attachments are the source of our unhappiness, and that equanimity starts with letting go of them. Of course, letting go of a lovely pair of breasts, or the fantasy, is super hard!
Unfortunately, men: the universe doesn’t owe you a pair of breasts. It especially doesn’t owe you an anime-fantasy pair that is magically there for you without effort when you want to suckle, and then gets you a beer and gives you a BJ before silently departing when you are done with them.
Oh, but that’s not fair, that’s not what you want – not you, anyway! You sincerely want a LTR with all the trimmings! A life-long ANR, not just a drive-by! Um, with that gorgeous anime character of your dreams. The perfect girl that wants nothing at all more than to cradle you to her milky bosom, who comes with no baggage, none of her own needs, and of course the most awesome…..
Yeah, that sort of loop is your own mind setting traps for your own unhappiness. First, how realistic is it? Have you seen the M to F ratio here and on every other related site? You understand that even if you do connect with someone, she would be an actual woman with her own needs and desires that may conflict with yours? Who might find your creepy basement-dwelling, flabby, uneducated, disinterested, broke-ass self lacking in a way or two?
Or maybe you know all this, yet there you are, waking up on the couch, TV still on, bottles of alcohol, pizza boxes and toppled-over ashtrays strewn about.
You scratch your balls as you check ABFheaven to see if any anime character babes have written to you. None? Seriously? What’s wrong with them!? Sighing, you yell to your mom upstairs that you are going to the store to get some more beer and smokes. Life, such as it is, goes on for another day, and another, and another, all the same…
The above is tongue-in-cheek to a degree, but men: it’s not in the stars to hold our destinies but ourselves!
I love this. Especially the part that women have their own needs, baggage and that we are actually REAL, and not just someone to have a breastfeeding fantasy with. Relationships take effort, and both partners have to bring their full selves to the table…
I want a love react because I love this!
Ah, the counterpoint.
Thank you for spelling it out. Men that don’t realize that women are not property will be forever dissatisfied.You nailed it.Its hard to find, when you have nothing to offer.My girlfriend gets messages everyday from dudes, that cant read a profile. I wont simp, but I understand how unique it is. And that you have to have something they would want. Mouths are a dime a dozen.
@foxgoddess
That quote is hysterical. Thanks. I got a good chuckle from that.
Exactly
@drsensitive Thank you for spelling it out, even if some is perhaps tongue-in-cheek, you nailed it. lol
@foxgoddess Exactly!
Hahaha this made me lol. Well written and superbly funny. A good sense of humour to me is the most important quality to bring to any relationship. Well done!
hey, you don’t need separate ash trays. the empty bottles get the job done fine.
@drsensitive. Hilarious, but also well said. Thanks!
I’ve never understood why some redpillers believe that having a first girlfriend will dramatically change them for the better.
Like OP said, we women have desires and needs. But we also have flaws. Getting your first date or first gf ever won’t change your traits long-term. Maybe there’s a 0.0006% chance a relationship will improve nearly everything about you. Don’t count on winning that lottery.
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