🩷Ladies, We Need to Talk🩷

[Lola 💋]

One of the great pleasures of talking to another woman is the moment she forgets to give you the short version. You ask where she got her earrings and somehow end up hearing about the year she lived in Florence and the man she moved there with. By then I don’t give a damn about the earrings. What happened in Florence?

That’s the sort of conversation I’d love to have with more of the women here. ABF Heaven has managed the strange trick of making it easier to ask a woman about her breasts than to ask her what she does for fun. I think we can afford to be a little nosier about the rest of each other.🫶🏻

So ladies, what could you talk about for hours if somebody got you started?

Mine is true crime 🫆🔪🤓! Put me next to a woman who listened to the same podcast and we’ll spend an hour on the one thing the host barely mentioned. Why did his sister say “which car” when the police asked where he’d parked? I’m sorry, go back. What does his sister know? And just like that, we’ve ordered a bottle of wine and neither of us is going home. 🍾

Tell me yours. And if a woman in the replies gets you thinking, Oh, I could talk to her all night, for heaven’s sake, say something.🩷

[Experiencia y Vínculo]

One of the main reasons why I believe most of us are here is to interact and share ideas and experiences with others who also have an interest in ABF/ANR—though, of course, that isn’t the only topic to discuss. Showing a bit of friendliness and a willingness to get to know others—and letting them get to know you—is crucial for building a genuine community where we can all feel comfortable and welcome; it doesn’t cost a thing. It’s simply about having a positive attitude toward sharing and contributing something good to those around you.

[Welshie 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿]

True crime is one of the things that does it for me too….along with music. I’ve got really eclectic taste and like loads of different genres. I love finding out about different artists and listening to them for the first time – even if I don’t like them, it’s still an experience!!

[Lola 💋]

@welshie who’s the last artist you stumbled across and immediately wanted to hear more of? And while I’ve got you, I’ll take a true crime recommendation too.🤓

[Welshie 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿]

Hmmm, a guy called Ian Elliott. He’s done some fab stuff that I really like and it helps he has a wicked sense of humour too!

True Crime is more difficult because I just watch whatever pops up on my recommendations and see if it’s any good 😂. I used to love listening to the Morbid podcast though.

What about you for the same questions?

[Lola 💋]

I’m on a Portishead kick right now. I’ve been going through all their old stuff again and haven’t strayed much. I love that whole moody, late-night sound. Also, enjoyed watching their old live performances. Definitely will check out Ian Elliott…thanks for the rec!

Have you tried Sweet Bobby? It’s about a woman who was catfished for nearly a decade. How on earth does somebody keep that going for ten years? I think that’s the one I’m about to start. 🤓

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