Your ABF Meeting Experiences – Brief Edition

[AsianMathNerd]

Reposting as multiple choice because the original came off as indirect. Also because multiple choice is easier for everyone to digest and encourages more people to participate.

Please briefly answer the following if you have met someone from ABFHeaven.

1. Did you or they reach out first?
A. I did
B. They did
C. Mutual / at the same time

2. What was the main purpose of meeting them in person?
A. Friendship
B. Romantic interest
C. Curiosity
D. Support / emotional connection
E. Other

3. How long did you talk with them before meeting in person?
A. Less than 1 week
B. 1–4 weeks
C. 1–3 months
D. 3–6 months
E. More than 6 months

4. How far did you/they travel to meet for the first time?
A. Same city
B. Less than 1 hour
C. 1–3 hours
D. More than 3 hours
E. Different state/country

5. How many times have you met them after the first time?
A. Only once
B. 2–3 times
C. 4–10 times
D. More than 10 times
E. Regularly

6. If measured, who had more experience in ABF?
A. Me
B. Them
C. Equal experience
D. Unsure

7. Were there any expectations that were held true after meeting multiple times?
A. Yes, mostly
B. Somewhat
C. No
D. I had no expectations
→ If yes or somewhat, briefly explain in one sentence: __________

8. Has ABF with this person changed your life?
A. Yes, significantly
B. Yes, slightly
C. No
D. Unsure
→ If yes, briefly explain why them specifically in one sentence: __________

9. Are there days you wish you could do more with ABF?
A. Yes, with them
B. Yes, but not with them
C. Occasionally
D. No
→ If yes or occasionally, briefly explain how in one sentence: __________

10. What made the connection form initially?
A. Shared interests
B. Emotional support
C. Similar life experiences
D. Curiosity / chance interaction
E. Other
→ Briefly explain what you bonded over in one sentence: __________

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Answers are relative to a lady from here that I met a few years ago. She has since retired to Costa Rica.

1) C
2) E. A combination of the above.
3) C
4) C
5) E. Once every couple of weeks as our schedules allowed.
6) C
7) B
8) B
9) C
10) A & C

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