Yes, I BLOCKED YOU!…. A word to the wise.

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  • #387138
    Jessica 🍓🥛
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    • Female
    • Looking for: Male
    • USA
    • Oregon

    The 3 I have blocked, 2 I’ve known in person and they’ve burned me pretty good and 1 I was in a relationship with and he was pretty hurtful

    #387211
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    I don’t just block people for the hell of it, some of them have been creepy and freaked me out, others are narcissists and I always avoid them as my mother is a narcissist and did a lot of damage to me, so I can spot them pretty quickly and keep away. You can never get through to them, no good can ever come of having anything to do with them. Some people I see in forum posts and I’m just like nope! Don’t want them in my DMs thankyou very much 😂

    #390202
    Ste
    Participant
    • Male
    • Looking for: Female
    • United Kingdom

    Yes Rachy…Im one of the 40. To this day I have absolutely no idea why…

    #390268
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    And I can’t understand why anyone would want to publicly humiliate themselves by asking on a public forum, but if you insist on airing your dirty laundry in such a public way, I found your language and tone to be superior and arrogant. You gave me a non apology for something you’re clearly not sorry for. A non apology consists of phrases such as “I’m sorry if” instead of “I’m sorry that”. Non apologies are used by narcissists to manipulate, to avoid responsibility and to gaslight, which I found to be consistent with your general tone in conversation. I don’t know you well enough to know whether or not you are narcissistic but I do know that our conversation was not something that I wished to continue with, as I was getting a vibe I was uncomfortable with.

    This is another reason why I agree with the proposal to make blocking site wide, not just in private areas. It would avoid awkward interactions like this.

    #390383
    Ste
    Participant
    • Male
    • Looking for: Female
    • United Kingdom

    Thank you for explaining, I can only apologise and hope my message was read out of context.
    I certainly dont see my self as arrogant or my messages as arrogant or narcissistic, but agaon apologise if they came across like that.

    #390397
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    @hellraiser6678 Ste, you’re not a narcissist.. do not apologise for apologising 🤦🏻‍♀️

    You’re not perfect, none of us are but you speak with respect to women and you don’t deserve that label.

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