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Describe your worst ANR casual meet up ?
I’ll go first.
I had a great connection with a woman online. It was time for the meet up- we decided to meet at a coffee shop. It was great until we went into my car. Maybe it was the amazing ventilation at the Cafe but omggggg when she lifted that arm pit ..I saw my soul leave my body. ( I have a very sensitive nose) so yup I started crying 😢. My face said it all. She looked confused at first then 😳 then said she was sorry and left.
We have talked since but that smell oh lordttttt. It was bad bad and I think it was more than just the arm pit. (Still suffering from trauma lol)I’ve never had a really bad suckling meet up. I almost feel traumatized from your story though 😱
I always take a fresh shower before I meet up with someone for nursing. I’m very paranoid about smelling when someone is so close to your body
Body hygiene is important. It’s good practice to take shower before meet up. Fresh smell always helps to feel comfortable when you get physically close.
Right!!! After that meet and greet we have not seen each other in person since lol
i had a women meet up in another state. We had talked for months and gotten to know each other fairly well and talked about nursing/suckling/ANR/ABF the whole while. When I flew up to meet her- she said we would not be doing any suckling the first time we met ( 5 day rental) – until/so we could get to know each other!
No way ..5 day rental to “get to know each other ” did she cave in eventually?
@nick oooooo I am so sorry!!! You would think at some point they would know but I guess some people are just use to the smell of their funk lol 😆
Omg did she tell you beforehand there would be no suckling in those 5 days?
No suckling after your flew out to see her without saying that ahead of time! That is really f’d up! It is fine if she wanted to get to know each other better first, but the respectful thing would be to make that clear before you spent money and took time off to fly to her!
OMGawd To all of these! I’m very sensitive to odors, scents & even heavy fragrances! I cannot imagine the shock of someone’s body odor. Personal hygiene of all kinds is very important.
The closest incident I have had was several years ago & it similar to the one @hollyjoy1035 mentioned. It has made me very apprehensive about meeting men. The guys place was a pig sty! The kitchen was a total mess with dirty dishes stacked all overboard the counter. There was dusty dirt like stuff dangling from the HVAC vents. There had to be mold & mildew in the place, it smelled awful! 😪Wow I have so many so i’ll probably share 2! (They all have not knowing what ANR is in common)
I met up with a guy I had been talking to for a while, just like the story above(@hollyjoy1035 )it was a hoarders house. I only stayed cause I guess it was the guys grandmas house so his room wasn’t that bad. Turns out he had no teeth and didn’t know how to latch…2 minutes later and I was speeding to the front door 😂
2nd guy it had been our 2nd date, cool guy I thought he knew what he was doing. He wasn’t a typical guy i’d go for, in the way that he didn’t host. So I decided to give it a chance anyway, we nursed in my car (dark tinted windows). There was no latching, it was straight nipple play and my nipples typically can’t handle that for a long time, I need a good latch so I ended things pretty fast and just called it there 😂
i’m sure i’ll have more bad stories if i’ve yet to find someone !
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