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November 10, 2021 at 3:29 pm #59473
Hi Michael,
I am one of those that have posted a W4W and I get so many responses from men that ask me to reconsider as do other women who have posted. So, I think for that reason alone there can a should be a W4W section. (Yes, I am openly bi, so I understand why I personally might get asked, but the particular ad clearly states W4W)
I’d also like to say that in my searching for partners I have come across many female profiles that are clearly stating that they are looking for a female only, but that doesn’t mean they will utilize the forum area as in its current form draws unwanted responses from men both in the forum and in private messages.
I have been messaged privately by many women the bay area (as I used to live there) and now in the la area, that have all expressed a wish that there was an *easier/clearer* way on the site to communicate with women and not have men also commenting/weighing in. In my observation this communication is happening bts in dms, so just because one doesn’t see it, doesn’t mean there isn’t a need.
Lastly I’d like to offer a suggestion if I am able to be so bold… it is true that every person here has different wants or desires individually but from what I have observed there seems to be 5 basic groups: Platonic ABF-that is just breastfeeding and nothing sexual is involved for either party could be casual and multiple parnters are welcomed by all; Sexual ABF: in that the ABF from above does include sex in some form, can be casual, and have multiple partners; Platonic ANR: is a non-sexual long term adult nursing relationship that is usually with 1 partner; Sexual/Intimate ANR: a long term adult nursing relationship that does include sex/intimacy and is usually with 1 partner; and lastly those that is one of the above with a fetish/kink/fantasy included.
There is no judgement ment by my observations, I just think that if the terms used here were clarified and used the in same way by the group it would allow for more open and honest communication right from the start and decrease confusion about what is meant by a person saying what they are looking for.
I appreciate all the changes you’ve been making and your time and effort to run this site for us all!November 10, 2021 at 11:39 pm #59832Why is it that mainly men or WFM commenting on this??? Let the WFW decide whether it’s a good idea or not!
November 10, 2021 at 11:42 pm #59833@bibreasts that’s a great idea!
November 11, 2021 at 4:46 am #59978Anonymous
InactiveKaramel I have in the past posted an ad here seeking a woman only. I wont post it anymore as I was inundated with stupid messages asking was I only interested in women, would I consider men, one person asked me over a number of messages had I made a mistake on the ad as my profile clearly stated i was interested in men or women but the ad only stated women. That’s why my preference would be a wfw section that men cannot access at all.
November 12, 2021 at 8:32 pm #60902Yes I think this is a great idea. If there were enough of us I’d stick to women only
December 8, 2021 at 8:36 pm #72424Anonymous
InactiveHonestly, I think it’s needed! I can say W4W all I want, and men don’t respect it. I’d love to see the personals get more specific! 🙂
December 14, 2021 at 8:05 pm #75223Anonymous
InactiveVery well said. My profile very explicitly States “NO MEN” in half a dozen different ways.
But I STILL am regularly messaged by creepy dudes. Sometimes I’m even messaged by men whom I believe are pretending to be women.
Because they refuse to Snapchat with me. Which in my opinion is a dead giveaway that you are either a man or you have something you’re trying to hide. -
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