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I never though for a million years that it would be so difficult to find a suitable partner. Maybe my standards are too high – local, non sexual and not in any kind of relationship lol
Yeah it is hard to find a partner that fits for it all that u are after
Yup. ANR/ABF is hard to find, even on like minded sites.
This lifestyle has always been difficult in finding a partner one connects with. Add in the distance, it makes it even more so.
The hardest part in my experience has been finding someone close enough.
Location, proximity is key. If you don’t have anyone within near travelling distance, it will always be tough. So the only way to look at it is to cross your fingers and hope someone near you finds this site. What else can you do? You can’t expect to find a partner willing to travel big distances, or to relocate. That’s unrealistic.
I think maybe I should reiterate, I really thought that this would be a wildly more popular activity.
I would think more women would enjoy this. But I think most women do not.
Finding someone you’re compatible with is hard work on its own. Adding ANR/ABF to the mix makes it even more difficult 🙂
I was finally able to find a fabulous ANR partner about two months ago. Our paths first crossed last summer, soon after I began dating a woman I met on a “regular” dating site. My ANR prospect, who approached me on another ANR site, lives about 90 minutes from me in another state. So I decided to be honest and tell her that because I had just begun seeing someone, plus the time/distance element with her, I thought it would be best if we passed on meeting each other. Fast forward to November 2020. My Non ANR relationship is progressing along quite nicely. I run into my summer ANR prospect again, on yet another ANR site. At this point, I know that my non-ANR girl, as great as she is in many ways,does not really like her breasts suckled. By now I also know just how difficult it is to find an ANR partner who lives within any semblance of “close by”. So I decided that if I ever wanted to break into the world of ANR as a “rookie”, I would need to expand my notion of what is “local” in the ANR world. So my ANR prospect and I decided to meet. I will say that the 3 hour round trip to see her is totally worth it. We average about 3 hours once every two weeks, although we have on met on consecutive days on a couple of occassions.
So I’ll now stop rambling and get to the point. If there is one single thing you can do to increase your chances of finding an ANR partner, it would be to expand the distance you’re willing to travel. As Michael so eloquently stated above, it’s ultimately all about location.
I’ve seen a number of profiles, all by Women, indicating a willingness to relocate for the right partner. Guys, it all depends on how mush you want this.
The other thing I would recommend is to constantly keep a very close eye on ALL of these ANR sites for new members. I was just approached by a new member who lives 30 minutes from me. Work all these sites and act quickly! Yes, it can happen to you. Be patient and stay positive. It only takes one.
PS: You can also post a free ad on Reddit. They have discussion groups r/adultbreastfeeding and r/adultnursing. One of them allows personal ads for ABF/ANR.
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I don’t mind a bit of travel for the right combo of elements. The unattached one is the one that eliminates the majority of everyone that contacts me. Then it is the non sexual aspect.
Play Time, If I understand your search parameters correctly, you’re looking for someone who is unattached and not looking for a sexual relationship with you. That sounds like a rather tall order, ya think? If there isn’t going to be sex, what difference does it make if he’s attached or not?
You are correct on my parameters. ANR is not at all sexual for me, so why would I set myself up to be in a situation that would make me do something I don’t want to do?? Because I do not tolerate ANY drama in my life. Attached men USUALLY don’t have permission to be in the proximity of another woman’s exposed breasts. So, no risks of crazy wives/gf’s if they are unattached.
Stick to your guns about your parameters of local, non-sexual, and unattached. Men far outnumber women on here. So be patient and you will likely find what you want. I have tried only one other ANR/ABF site milksweetmilk. I was contacted by several scammers and prostitutes. My recommendation is everybody stay away fro that site. Anyone else have positive or negative experience with other sites?
So does your non anr seeking friend know your out looking for women for a ANR, or is it going to be a surprise to her if she finds out. because this may not end well for you with that person
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