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  • #823957
    Mr.French
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    • Male
    • Looking for: Female
    • USA
    • Texas

    Hey everybody ! My bestfriend for 20 years, been through ups and downs, slept on his couch before I owned property, went to the wedding, his family considers me family. He has been nagging me all day about what community I am involved with after the topic came up when I told him I met up with someone. He always ask “how did you meet her” and I usually fib and tell him “just leave your Snapchat here leave your snapchat there” somebody finds it right.

    This time I told him im part of an online community. And he won’t stop asking lol hes relentless. He is also a master prankster and jokester so part of me knows I’m not going to hear the end of it.

    Do you guys think I should tell him im part of the best ABF community on earth?

    My thing is
    1) I dont want him to misinterpret it as some kind of weird internal ” mommy issue”

    2) first thing he is going to do is tell his wife 😂

    3) Im still just shy about anybody I know personally that I specifically like sucking on big breasted beautiful women

    What do you think? Who should know? Should I tell anybody even my closest friend?

    #823964
    Sparkie
    Participant
    • Female
    • Looking for: Male
    • USA
    • Massachusetts

    No…!! It might feel too weird..if he also joins here or starts teasing you when you’re with friends. So I would keep it separate but that’s just me. It’s your private life and it’s fine to have a beautiful secret.

    #823982
    Day
    Participant
    • Female
    • Looking for: Male
    • USA
    • Connecticut

    I personally told my best friend when I first joined this site and started thinking of inducing. She went out and got me my first set of pumps even though this is not her thing. If you know he’s going to tease you about it I wouldn’t tell him but if you have a friend like I do that supports each other no matter what it’s nice having someone off site that knows.

    #823994
    Mr.French
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    • Male
    • Looking for: Female
    • USA
    • Texas

    A beautiful secret is a cool way to look at it 🙂

    #823995
    Mr.French
    Participant
    • Male
    • Looking for: Female
    • USA
    • Texas

    Yes that is cool. I dont exactly see him going out and getting me a fresh set of breast but in that sense women are way more supportive than men lol.

    #824027
    Jen (North Carolina)
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    • Female
    • Looking for: Male & Female
    • USA
    • North Carolina

    I don’t think I would tell a prankster.
    If he won’t let up, I’d probably tell him it’s a group that talks about gardening tips or recipes or travel… which is basically true, just not the main reason you joined. Or think of something he would have zero interest in and tell him it’s that. A group that gives tips on knitting perhaps? Or how to culture sourdough? How to blend essential oils- then give him a cedar and bergamot blend for Christmas.

    I would keep this one tight to your chest.

    #824048
    Grogman🍑🚀💙
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    • Male
    • Looking for: Female
    • USA
    • Ohio

    NO with a capital N and O!

    #824064
    Lola 💋
    Participant
    • Female
    • Looking for: Male
    • USA
    • Louisiana

    Mr. French, the fact that you’re worried he’ll think you have mommy issues when the REAL problem is that his wife will know approximately 11 seconds after he does. 😂😂

    I think you already know the answer. If you WANT your best friend of 20 years to know, tell him. If you’re only considering it because the nosy bastard won’t stop asking, he can remain curious!

    Although after 20 years, I’m guessing “French likes boobs” isn’t exactly going to rock this man’s understanding of you.

    Please report back when he inevitably never lets you live this down. 🤓

    #824066
    David
    Participant
    • Male
    • Looking for: Female
    • USA
    • New Jersey

    “We met on the internet, all the kids are doing it”

    #824073
    Mr.French
    Participant
    • Male
    • Looking for: Female
    • USA
    • Texas

    “Basically that” was really funny

    #824074
    Mr.French
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    • Male
    • Looking for: Female
    • USA
    • Texas

    A man of few words I love it

    #824076
    Mr.French
    Participant
    • Male
    • Looking for: Female
    • USA
    • Texas

    He knows i like boobs hell his dad knows i like voluptuous women 😂
    Thank you for the inspirational response Lola May

    #824077
    Mr.French
    Participant
    • Male
    • Looking for: Female
    • USA
    • Texas

    This reminds me of “you don’t know her I met her at camp” 😂

    #824115
    Quiet Place
    Participant
    • Female
    • Looking for: Male
    • USA
    • Alaska

    So Mr. F,
    My 2cents, from someone who has been doing this for almost 20yrs.. and my daughter’s want to know EVERYTHING.. and bc i live with one of them.. they want to know just who im chatting with.
    I go to response now has always been “i belong to a support group for mental health”, which isnt entirely untrue.. bc i cant lie to save my ass.
    Hope thats useful.
    Cheers

    #824133
    Mr.French
    Participant
    • Male
    • Looking for: Female
    • USA
    • Texas

    Thank you so much for your input !!!

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