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October 7, 2026 at 4:30 pm #823957
Hey everybody ! My bestfriend for 20 years, been through ups and downs, slept on his couch before I owned property, went to the wedding, his family considers me family. He has been nagging me all day about what community I am involved with after the topic came up when I told him I met up with someone. He always ask “how did you meet her” and I usually fib and tell him “just leave your Snapchat here leave your snapchat there” somebody finds it right.
This time I told him im part of an online community. And he won’t stop asking lol hes relentless. He is also a master prankster and jokester so part of me knows I’m not going to hear the end of it.
Do you guys think I should tell him im part of the best ABF community on earth?
My thing is
1) I dont want him to misinterpret it as some kind of weird internal ” mommy issue”2) first thing he is going to do is tell his wife 😂
3) Im still just shy about anybody I know personally that I specifically like sucking on big breasted beautiful women
What do you think? Who should know? Should I tell anybody even my closest friend?
October 7, 2026 at 4:55 pm #823964No…!! It might feel too weird..if he also joins here or starts teasing you when you’re with friends. So I would keep it separate but that’s just me. It’s your private life and it’s fine to have a beautiful secret.
October 7, 2026 at 5:26 pm #823982I personally told my best friend when I first joined this site and started thinking of inducing. She went out and got me my first set of pumps even though this is not her thing. If you know he’s going to tease you about it I wouldn’t tell him but if you have a friend like I do that supports each other no matter what it’s nice having someone off site that knows.
October 7, 2026 at 5:40 pm #823994A beautiful secret is a cool way to look at it 🙂
October 7, 2026 at 5:41 pm #823995Yes that is cool. I dont exactly see him going out and getting me a fresh set of breast but in that sense women are way more supportive than men lol.
October 7, 2026 at 7:13 pm #824027I don’t think I would tell a prankster.
If he won’t let up, I’d probably tell him it’s a group that talks about gardening tips or recipes or travel… which is basically true, just not the main reason you joined. Or think of something he would have zero interest in and tell him it’s that. A group that gives tips on knitting perhaps? Or how to culture sourdough? How to blend essential oils- then give him a cedar and bergamot blend for Christmas.I would keep this one tight to your chest.
October 7, 2026 at 8:11 pm #824048NO with a capital N and O!
October 7, 2026 at 8:38 pm #824064Mr. French, the fact that you’re worried he’ll think you have mommy issues when the REAL problem is that his wife will know approximately 11 seconds after he does. 😂😂
I think you already know the answer. If you WANT your best friend of 20 years to know, tell him. If you’re only considering it because the nosy bastard won’t stop asking, he can remain curious!
Although after 20 years, I’m guessing “French likes boobs” isn’t exactly going to rock this man’s understanding of you.
Please report back when he inevitably never lets you live this down. 🤓
October 7, 2026 at 8:44 pm #824066“We met on the internet, all the kids are doing it”
October 7, 2026 at 8:55 pm #824073“Basically that” was really funny
October 7, 2026 at 8:56 pm #824074A man of few words I love it
October 7, 2026 at 8:57 pm #824076He knows i like boobs hell his dad knows i like voluptuous women 😂
Thank you for the inspirational response Lola MayOctober 7, 2026 at 8:57 pm #824077This reminds me of “you don’t know her I met her at camp” 😂
October 7, 2026 at 10:24 pm #824115So Mr. F,
My 2cents, from someone who has been doing this for almost 20yrs.. and my daughter’s want to know EVERYTHING.. and bc i live with one of them.. they want to know just who im chatting with.
I go to response now has always been “i belong to a support group for mental health”, which isnt entirely untrue.. bc i cant lie to save my ass.
Hope thats useful.
CheersOctober 7, 2026 at 10:53 pm #824133Thank you so much for your input !!!
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