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Sometimes I think I’m looking for a unicorn!! I want that elusive long term relationship that has ANR as part of its core, but isn’t the only reason I’m with someone.
So my ideal man would be:
1) Someone who respects me as a woman and realises I’m more than a life support system for a great rack. In fact, someone who doesn’t refer to my breasts as tits, a rack, jugs….or any number of random slang words. There needs to be a connection between us for there to be any hope!
2) Someone who can have a decent conversation about more than just breasts. I want to be able to talk about the big stuff in life, not just trivia. If you can’t stimulate my mind, then don’t even bother trying to stimulate anything else.
3) Someone with a cracking sense of humour – I love to laugh, it’s one of the best reasons to be alive. I don’t care if you have a 6 pack or a 36 gallon barrel, if you can make me laugh then it’s a damned good start!
4) Someone who I can be quiet with at times, who realises that not every minute has to be filled with noise. There’s enough of that in the world without us having to add to it at every opportunity.
5) Someone who is close to my age or older. I can’t have kids and I don’t want to get invested in a relationship with anyone who realises that they do have the desire to be a Dad. I’ve accepted it’s not going to happen for me, but I won’t take the chance away from anyone else.
6) Someone who lives close enough that meeting up is a possibility. I’m not naive enough to think I’ll find my perfect partner 5 miles away, but on the same land mass (or at least on the same continent) is a really good start. A millionaire with a private jet, who can overcome this barrier is, of course welcome to inbox me 😂
7) Someone who gets that I won’t be lactating FOR him. That’s a decision to make with a partner and if we decide we want to try and induce he will be an active participant in making it happen. It will be for us, to share.
8) Someone who is honest, even if it hurts. I want someone I can trust and who has the integrity to tell me if something isn’t working for him. People aren’t always destined to be together and that’s okay – if we don’t work out, then we can all use friends to talk to about this wonderful way of life we all want in it’s varying entities.
9) Someone who is kind and caring, but who still has a backbone and can stand up to me. If I think I can walk all over you, I’m just going to keep walking….
10) Someone who is creative, enjoys time spent out in nature and is generally interested in the world around him.
11) Really importantly (for a Welsh woman anyway) someone who gives damned good hugs, sometimes in the most random of places. If we’re walking through the park, down the street or down a supermarket aisle and either of us wants a hug, then why the hell not!
I absolutely love this community and some of the people I’ve met here have been amazing, but we all need to do better sometimes!
Merry Christmas Everyone xx
Thank you Welshie! You hit on things I left out! I appreciate you! ❤️
In response to FoxyGoddess:
apparently I am a jerk, a myisogynist, a creep, a sick pervert and I have absolutely no regard for women whatsoever.
Thank you very much for your insight. Now I am going to be a better person
Have a nice dayAwesome! I wish you all the luck in your progress! ❤️
No worries lovely, I thought I was writing a list for Santa at one point! 😂
And I appreciate you too 😘
Markus, in the nicest possible way, all Foxy was doing was pointing out how you can improve the way you address women here.
You can’t just reduce us to a pair of boobs in conversation and then expect anyone who has seen that exchange to take you seriously.
Yes, we enjoy ABF or ANR in whatever way we do, but we’re people and need to be treated with respect, exactly the same as the guys here. If you don’t treat us with respect, then it’s to be expected that you won’t get it back.
Have you watched Practical Magic where she writes the impossible spell list of her “true love”? I think I totally did that when I was too young to remember. I feel the list to Santa. Lol
I also really appreciated your, “no alternate references” comment. Crude language is a turn off for me, so that really rang home.
Fellas, I think everything these lovely ladies are saying comes down to we want men who love our breasts because they are ours. This implies that her breasts and ANR are the icing on the cake to the experience of loving the woman who owns them. So, many of the women on here are looking for all the other benchmarks for a healthy compatible relationship (this varies by person). All the women here have breasts and all the men (and some women) want to nurse on them…….so what makes her the one with whom you want to experience this dynamic? Why her and why you?
Dating in general can be summed up by one of my favorite childhood movies, The Swan Princess:
Derek: “You’re beautiful.”
Odete: “Thank you, but what else?”
Derek: “What else is there?”🙌 #10
Good grief(🙌 Also 1-9)
Thanks, Foxy, for doing the thinking and writing that I don’t ever have the energy for.
For me, I get tired of men who will message me and say “let me know the next time you’re in town. Maybe we can have a session!” So you’re telling me that I’m not worth driving to get to know and you want me to do the work to get together. I feel like people want what’s east and don’t want to put forth the effort to establish something worthwhile. Newsflash: nothing about me is easy. 🤷🏻♀️
Yeah, bare minimum people aren’t worth wasting time on, period. If you can’t be bothered to put the effort into what you want, I can’t be bothered to care about what you want. I expect to at least see same amount of effort put in, otherwise, I’m not going to waste my time and energy.
I resonate with your statement: “Nothing about me is easy”. So much same.
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