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Hi everyone! I’m up late and feeling chatty so I thought I’d make a post asking the question we l ask each other the most: how did you get into anr/abf?
I have been asked it at least 10 times since joining yesterday and I realized I really enjoy hearing the answers! So if you have a moment please share with me!
For me, I have always loved being fondled and whatnot. In recent years it has become more of a need than a want. After a bit of searching I found r/AdultBreastfeeding and after a little lurking I saw someone mention this site! So I decided to join on a whim!
I have personally never had any experience with anr/abf but I would love to someday. I am really attracted to the intimate and caring aspect of it all.
You’re not alone Annie. Many ladies love having their breasts fondled or sucked, and that stimulation sometimes ‘wakes up’ the desire to actually breastfeed or nurse. After all, it’s exactly what mother nature designed breasts to do.
My interest in ABF was started by a documentary about extended breastfeeding – mums still nursing their kids beyond the age of 2 and up to age 7. I was about 20 at the time, and couldn’t help secretly wondering if breastmilk and the bonding/relaxing power of suckling might be good for me. But I kept those ‘weird’ ideas to myself, fearing ridicule or worse.
A few years later, while trawling across the web, I started to come across sites dedicated to sharing know-how about ABF/ANRs. I was relieved to find my desire was completely natural and shared by many others, some of whom had actually experienced it in long-term relationships. That’s when I decided to search for the right woman to enjoy it with for myself. So far I’ve only suckled once, but at least I now know exactly what I’m missing, and it’s something I truly need in my life.
This site and sites like it are a way for me to find like minded people. I can say with a high degree of certainty not all women enjoy to the same level having their breasts fondled and loved on. I have known /do know some who enjoy it only as precurser to sexual intercorse and during, but otherwise have no interest.
For me it’s as some others describe, a peaceful, loving, enjoyable experience even outside the context of sex. Don’t get me wrong however, the act is and can be very arousing to me from a sexual perspective as well. SO what brought me here…again there is already inside my psyche a need..and I am looking for others who feel the same.
Rob, that is funny how we always think we are the only one in our interests and desires. I was surely the same way, I’m glad to find like minds!
Michael, its funny that you mention women who only like the fondling as a precursor to sex because that is how I realized I was different than others haha.
I agree that even though its comforting, it is also inherently sexual as well. Now that we are here amongst like minds, I hope you can find your person!
I have always been fascinated by breastfeeding, even before I was sexually active. I also find pregnant women to be extremely beautiful and sexually stunning. When sexual intimacy stopped being a part of my marriage, I waited several years and then decided to hire a professional. I looked for something I never would have experienced at home… and found an escort who was in her last month of pregnancy. I was nervous as hell when we met, but it went quite well. I will spare the details for those who do not wish to hear them– except to say, she sprayed milk (perhaps it was colostrum– I didn’t know the difference then) in my mouth. The taste of it was electrifying. I was instantly aroused and addicted to it. That started my serious quest for ABF experiences. One of those experiences developed into a modified ANR of 5+ years.
I think for me it probably really started quite early, I found out a few years back that I was breastfeed till I was three. I also sucked my thumb till I was 17. That is until one time I noticed my older brother, who was in his twenties was still sucking his as well, from that day I never did again.
I have always had an affinity for large breasts, just seeing them puts a smile on my face. Needless to say most of my girlfriends where usually well endowed, and I’d suck on them every chance I got. My last relationship, her breasts would react to any nearby baby that was crying. They’d start producing just from the sound of it. They’d also produce if I sucked on them for a period of time, which I enjoyed. We’d fall asleep with me suckling on her, ah the good old days.
I really miss that, so that’s what lead me to this site.
I actually had my very first ANR experience last weekend. It was every bit as enjoyable as I thought it would be, for both of us. In fact we had such a good time that we got together all day Sunday as well. I was quite pleased to hear her high praise of my suckling skills and stamina.
This weekend we’re going to focus on getting a good strong latch….and take it from there. I told her I want to become her “Pinball Wizard” of suckling. We are off to a great start!
Vin
I was exposed to it young age 16, so technically not “Adult” Breastfeeding in the USA. My mom’s 38y old friend moved in with us and would babysit me. She had a 4 month old she was weening and got me into it. She had me come into her bedroom then drain her tits holding my head on her lap or laying on top of me. Until this day I never met a partner as great as her, I’m addicted.
I was introduced to ABF after my first child was born. As often happens, curiosity became a complete obsession with nursing. I learned as much as I could about it : how a woman’s body responds to nursing by producing, stimulation & massage techniques, as well as becoming personally involved in the journey to inducing lactation. I have been both mentor and mentee and was once called “The Breast Whisperer” by someone whom I consider a dear friend & confidant. ABF isn’t a casual sexual thing to me. It requires so much dedication from both partners to create this uniquely special bond between partners. It also doesn’t have to be overtly sexual. Human touch is essential to life and ABF is sensual and loving in that essential way. The sexual element is beautiful in its own way; a positive energy that comes from the bond.
I’ve never done anything to do with ABF, but I’ve always (well since about 2008) had this fantasy about straddling a man, him undoing my shirt and him feeding from me. I always just assumed it was a thing only I wanted, only this year when I was bored during lockdown I googled adult breastfeeding and came across Lactation Wiki and then this site. I’ve been pleasantly surprised to find it’s a thing that a lot of people (i.e. not just me) want.
I’ve never tried it, although obviously I want to. I’ve always found pregnant women attractive. Sometimes if I’m watching them in porn they’ll start milking and it turns out I thought that was hot too. Plus who doesn’t love breasts? Maybe if I ever get the chance to take part the reality won’t live up to the fantasy or maybe it will be everything I hoped for. Only one way to find out.
This is a subject that I’ve been interested in from a very early age. Some of my first experiences went as far back as elementary school. Started with small things, like for example getting to read National Geographic magazines with pictures of primitive tribes where the bare-chested women would nurse their infants outside for everyone to see, or watching one of my school teachers go through a pregnancy of triplets right in front of my eyes. Seeing a health documentary with tasteful yet still enticing nude footage, or even just using my imagination.
I now have some hands-on experience and could say a few things about why the real thing is enjoyable and rewarding, but my true love isn’t of actual nursing in the real world, but of the abstract idea that still exists in the realm of theory and fantasy.
If I had to describe that, I would be at a loss for words. But the core idea is beautifully simple- to witness a woman in a state of absolute nirvana, satisfaction, and contentedness. That the innermost essence of femininity and fertility are expressed in tangible form. The sort of thing that has never been witnessed by human eyes and probably never will.
The closest thing to that idea I’ve yet encountered was a part of a very strange children’s story that I was told ages ago. To summarize, a hunter is tasked with gathering lion’s milk for an important cause. He accomplishes this by leading a massive flock of sheep out to the wilderness, letting a pride of lions devour all the sheep, and then collecting the milk from the nursing lionesses when they’ve passed out from overeating. Other events ensue afterward, not relevant.
The thing that stood out was a certain way the above occurred to me. Focus on the concept of a ravenous apex predator that lives out in the savanna, risking life and limb on scant pickings to avoid starvation. Needing to gorge on whatever chance provides to last through lengthy droughts and famines, and even more so to nurse their young. The sort of creature that would tear apart a hunter if ever given a chance. This very creature now laying on her side, bulging stomach stretched tight and heavy. As the hunter may rest a hand on her belly and wrap his fingers around her swollen teats to steal her precious milk, she is reduced to a state of such perfect satisfaction that all she can do is purr.
Needless to say this is only a vague abstraction of the idea, and a very odd one at that, not meant to be taken literally. Even so, still the closest expression of the core concept I’ve seen.
A lot of positive & encouraging replies
Gives me some hope.
I’ve always had a love & fascination of big breasts
And Sucking on them
& doing some searching I found this site
Any ladies willing to chat ?I always enjoyed having my breasts suckled and fondled as foreplay, but realized in my last relationship that I would desire to have them suckled without the sexual component. For me it’s a stress relief and a great way to decompress. Kind of like a weird form of therapy where I can relax my body and mind and be in the moment with my partner.
I’d never thought about inducing lactation until coming to this site, but am not ready for the commitment that I’ve learned comes with getting to a place of regular production. Hopefully in the future though!
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