Were You Always Like This? 😏

[Lola]

I’ve been wondering about something, and since some of you require very little encouragement to share your secrets, this feels like the perfect place to ask. 🤓

How did this become your thing?

I don’t mean how you found this site. I mean before you knew the words ANR or ABF, or even realized anyone else wanted this too. When did you first notice there was something about nursing that pulled you in?

I’m intentionally not calling it sexual, because I know it isn’t that for everyone. It might have started with attraction or curiosity, or had more to do with intimacy, nurturing, comfort, closeness, breasts, milk…or some combination of things you couldn’t quite explain at the time.

Did you always know? Was there a particular moment or experience that made something click? Did someone introduce you to the idea? Or did you carry it quietly for years before discovering you’re not the only one?

I especially want to hear about the moment you realized this had a name and an entire community attached to it. Was that exciting? A relief? Did it make you even more curious?

I want the backstory, not what happened afterward. That’s a conversation for another day. 😏

So tell me your origin story!

Were you always like this…or did something awaken it? 🫶🏻

[B♾️b Willis]

For me it happened with the guys in the neighborhood. We were preteen-early teen and had playboys and other magazines that were removed from our father’s collections using covert ops, you know special forces…. So we would meet and trade and stuff. I aways traded for the the b♾️bie pictures and the all the other kids wanted the below the waist pictures. They said I was weird but I knew what I wanted and liked. I could get like 10 b♾️bie pictures for 1 that they wanted.
That’s my story and I am sucking to it!

[Andy]

I was always like this and did become excited when I realized it is a thing.

[Cass]

A little embarrassing but…while it isn’t necessarily a sexual thing now, that is how it started for me. Always had a thing for breast play and I was on a NSFW subreddit that was tailored to it. So I was just kind of aimlessly scrolling through the videos when someone just happened to comment “just go to r/adultbreastfeeding if this what you want.” It was the first time I’d heard of that and of course there was a subreddit for it because there’s a sub for everything lol. But I went to it and from there it was a bunch of other subs for ABF/ANR. I spent a long time reading people’s experiences and what they look for and enjoy about it and realized it was something that I wanted too. Can’t remember where I found this website though. I think it was another person that just commented on a random post.

This was all a couple of months ago so fairly recent for me.

[Lola]

@nips2lips 😘

So you knew exactly what you liked early on AND figured out how to game the market. Ten for one?! Those poor boys had no idea they were being absolutely fleeced.

I love that your origin story basically amounts to: They thought I was weird. I thought I was getting a hell of a deal. 😂

And clearly, all these years later, you are indeed sucking to it. 😉

[Lola]

@midwestnoob 😘

Nothing embarrassing about that at all! I actually find the part about it not necessarily being sexual now really interesting, especially since that’s what initially brought you to it. Somewhere in all that reading, it sounds like the appeal grew into something different than what you originally thought you were looking for.

And only a couple of months ago! You’re practically brand new. What changed for you as you started reading other people’s experiences on Reddit or here? What do you think you’re drawn to about it now that you weren’t thinking about in the beginning?😘

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