We talk about red flags a lot but what about green ones?

[The Milk Lad]

Is there anyway to spot a green flag in public?
For example you can spot swinger’s by the upside down pineapples , I think there was a pear that ment something to for awhile?

Is there any tell signs, hints, or symbolism that are dead giveaways of someone’s love for abf or anr?

I believe if a man says he’s a breast man he probably liks sucking boob’s, that’s a sign. How can you tell if a woman is?

Feel free to list anymore

[Jake]

I’m not only rather new and rather inexperienced in the grand ANR scheme, but I’m also quite young too compared to most guys and gals in this scene. I don’t know if my word will hold any weight as a result, but I’d like to offer my two cents anyway. Anyone can feel free to correct me on anything.

I’m not sure there’s any real way of signalling one’s interest in ABF, short of wearing a heart-shaped badge with the letters ANR on your lapel. It’s still quite a niche interest today, and it’s hard to tell who practices it without talking about it because of its deeply personal and emotional component.

Heck, I still haven’t heard the terms ANR or ABF ever used in the wild or among any of my friends. I think part of that is because many of my friends are single and/or childless; they’ve not gone through breastfeeding in their lives and haven’t experienced the intimacy of it, and therefore have no context of it to want to introduce it into their lives. Perhaps this is why a large number of women in this community are mothers? (This whole paragraph is me talking out of my ass, so feel free to disregard it.)

On the point about sucking boobs and being a breast man, I’m not 100% sure they’re as clear a signal for liking ABF as you say. I’m *very* much a breast man and have a lean towards much bigger size. I also enjoy sucking boobs, in part because I’m a breast man. But the first time I partook in nursing, I realised that there is a VERY stark difference between titsucking and breastfeeding. Breastfeeding is such a deeply intimate activity, and the look/feel/whatever of my partner’s breasts themselves had little to do with that closeness. I could find that closeness with any woman of any boob size. I don’t think that’s something someone can fully grasp until they’ve gone through real nursing (at least, that’s how it was in my case). They can go hand-in-hand of course, and titsucking can very much be a gateway to nursing, but someone being interesting in titsucking doesn’t necessarily translate to being into ANR.

Sorry I went on a bit of a monologue, you didn’t ask for this 😅

[The Milk Lad]

Awesome mate, so check one for not sure lol
So here’s one, when they take Those medications for mull production … for fun .. that can be an irl green flag 🙂

[The Milk Lad]

Great answer imo

[Brian]

Well said Jake. I couldn’t have said it any better. Don’t discount yourself for being young. From what I’ve read You have a strong understanding of the intimate side of adult nursing.

[The Milk Lad]

Thank you brian

[The Milk Lad]

Here’s another green flag, if she pumps or has pumps

Or has spare milk laying around.

My ex fiances mom had some milk in the fridge and she would not let me eat it with my cereal she said it was spoiled.
Thinking back on it… I think she use to put it in the food she would make…

[Agent Rose]

I have a “Lactivist” pin that I have affixed to my work backpack 🤣

If anyone asks, I say I am pro breastfeeding. Especially when non work colleagues ask, I often add “and yes, I still produce milk”.

[The Milk Lad]

See rose is good ! This is what I’m talking about , this is what I was seeking 🙂
Thank you secret agent rose 🌹

[Agent Rose]

The pin in question:

https://imgur.com/a/UiNbXbk

[The Milk Lad]

Thank you! I will keep an eye out for it

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