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I hear ya!! Keys in the bowl the wrong approach but meeting a great idea. Ladies know who they want to suckle them, if they want to be suckled, leave nature to take its course. Great idea Evie
I’m sorry if people have taken offence to my keys comment – never meant any harm or intention from it. Thought the idea was a good one for a meet up, but was curious how the event would go. Sorry
Sounds very intriguing and interesting but sadly maybe need some rules and regulations to stop the ” let’s make it an orgy, thinking with whats in your pants” guys … !
I’d be very interested.
I totally agree that any comment regarding turning into an orgy/keys in bowl etc. this is not the reason I wanted to join this site. Surely it’s all about connection and intimacy rather getting “off”?Looking forward to hearing the idea develop.
Hi Evie
Great idea, yes there should be a convention, im interested. It’s the connection and the chance to meet people with the same interest. Would definitely be worth looking into more. Pm me, I’d like to help out.If you’ll have a Canadian woman, I’d consider coming to your side of the pond. ☀️
Even though I’m Dutch I really like the concept, apart from the keys in the bowl part. if any nursing was to take place in the first place I think it should be discussed with both sides directly and privately at the location. And I don’t mind traveling to the UK or anywhere else in Europe for that matter if things are scheduled in an appropriate time manner.
Hi guys. I think its a great idea, but is going to take some organizing. I like the idea of a hotel rather than a club or taking over a swingers venue. Lets keep it classy and clean. Booking enough rooms and not having the organizer go out of pocket would deposits would need to be taken, so that would mean someone with the ability to facilitate CC payments. Even then the deposits probably wouldn’t cover the expenses. Maybe someone on here knows of or has links to a venue. Camping in the UK, no matter how “Glam” is so weather dependent. The whole nature of the subject suggests somewhere warm and comfortable, not windswept and rainy!
I think a balance in numbers is really important too. Maybe book on a first come first served basis, but prioritize the ladies to balance the number of men. I totally understand the comments about not becoming an orgy. although its unlikely. If people aren’t into that they aren’t going to suddenly strip off and start f***ing just because they are at an event! However there are whose that enjoy the sexual element of ABF and provision should be make for them. Certain rooms designated etc. I think that there should be some element of security and people shouldn’t be drinking too much. Zero drug policy too. I’d suggest ID’s should be provided at the final booking stage, inc. addresses. This would be held confidentially by the organizer and re-checked at check in. If people misbehave, they will be removed from the event and blacklisted with no refunds.
If people are really keen to attend from other countries it might be good to design an event over a couple of days and nights, where people can come and go and meet up as suits them; all in a safe, like minded, comfortable environment. I think a group could be created here for the event showing who is interested and once deposits are paid; who’s attending. They way people can start to talk, form connection and plan before the event.
Lets keep this going, it would be a great thing to actually bring to life. Happy New Year everyone.
I have to agree with Oxytocin Rocket here. I’ve been working hard to raise awareness of erotic lactation and adult breastfeeding as something other than a kink, fetish, or an activity associated with swingers or voyeuristic spaces—and this, unfortunately, very much sounds like a swingers event.
For many reasons I won’t go into here, I don’t think this is a good idea, particularly because it reinforces a negative public image of adult nursing and undermines efforts to present it as something meaningful, intentional, and worthy of serious discussion.That’s also not gonna help many of you who are single and hope to “talk your partners” into it.
What I would genuinely love to see someday is a proper, thoughtfully curated convention—one that engages with the work of people like Timothy Murrell (sadly no longer with us) and others who approached this subject with depth and integrity. That is the kind of space I would gladly attend, contribute to, and even write or lecture for, with the aim of education and awareness. Adult breastfeeding was once a universal and sacred ancestral practice—one that not only fosters pleasure and deep bonding between partners, but has the potential to heal, regulate, and even save lives.
This matters because many women carry a deep, often unspoken wound around their bodies and sexuality, rooted in centuries of demonization as societies moved away from goddess-centered cultures into patriarchal frameworks. That legacy is one of the key reasons many women feel unable to engage with ABF, struggle with intimacy, stop initiating sex, or withdraw altogether in long-term relationships.
These are just my two cents, offered humbly. As I’ve mentioned before, I’m currently working on a book that weaves together my personal journey where I actually induced lactation as sacred priestesses once did, conversations with many of you, and research into ancient practices and archetypal psychology—one of my main fields of work. From that perspective, ABF is not fringe or deviant, but profoundly ancestral and archetypal, as I argue throughout my work.
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