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Well there are a lot of time wasters and not serious people on these sites. Like the one who bugged me for ever to meet and also led me to believe they wanted an LTR in ANR ,we met and the next day excuses I don’t have time I’m busy which is questionable since they. Have hrs to spend on the sites. Point being why are you even bothering anyone to meet or even on the site if you don’t have time. And that goes for anyone. This is not a game where you think you can show up when you feel like it.you need to be committed to it or don’t bother. And very serious which this person isn’t but says everyone else isn’t. If you are serious you don’t do stuff like this . It’s disrespecting the other person. And just wasting their time. And you guys need to stop leading women on to believe your interested and your not. And the childish ghosting business how so immature. What’s wrong with saying I changed my mine etc but don’t do that! And the the ones that are only trying to get sex and not interested in anr at all not nice at all no wonder women don’t want to meet. You guys are scaring them off. And you are ruining it for the ones that are here for the right reasons. And there is nothing wrong with chatting for awhile to get to know someone first and that doesn’t happen in 5 mins. Before you even think of meeting. If you guys don’t like it then you shouldn’t be on here. And the ones wasting everyone’s time going on about sex instead of anr. I personally don’t want to hear it it’s a big turn off. When we are supposed to be talking about suckling. And guys just remember when you make excuses they are really just lies. And have respect for the other person and don’t play games and makes excuses and waste their time cos you aren’t serious to start with your selfs. This is a commitment and if you don’t want to commit then don’t be in it and waste other people’s time. And don’t play games. And what this person says everyone else is doing he’s doing himself . Big Time! So stop the game playing etc and just enjoy the site for what it’s for finding a partner for ANR and ABF . And a big thank you goes out to Michael for patrolling the site so well. And remember guys when you make up excuses just be careful what you say cos you can end up making yourself a lier!!!! And excuses are just lies anyway 99.9% of the time! Remember honesty is the best policy!
Happy searching!
Oh no, I’m so sorry you’ve had such a bad experience. No excuse but I wonder whether he just didn’t have the balls to say how he really felt. I feel for everyone on here who is genuine and gets this kind of treatment. You keep being you and you will meet the right partner soon, good luck x
Actually getting to a meeting in person seems like “progress” to me. Most of the time wasters just want to chat online or texts and eventually fade away or ghost. If you actually met someone and then he made excuses, it’s possible that he just didn’t feel any chemistry but wasn’t sure how to tell you nicely. It’s still frustrating but his intentions might have been good.
Oh that sucks.. sorry to hear that and some of us have had good experiences
I don’t even get that, just crickets in my area.
It’s better to be upfront with the kind of experience they are wanting. They might want a ltr anr, then realize that’s not it for them.
What is it they say? Everything is always best in anticipation. I think sometimes people want to just entertain a fantasy, it’s easy to control a thought in your head. It’s much harder to control people in reality because people have a free will. I have met a fair number of women who did the same to me too. They imagined our meeting would go one way and it wasn’t what they imagined it to be so they came up with some lame excuse like “oh my dog farted, I have to go” after fifteen minutes of suckling. I’m sorry you’ve had so much trouble, it’s not just you sweet lady. If you ever want to vent or let out frustration, feel more than free to message me. You’re not alone.
I feel there are just as many women % wise who are on here playing games as men , only there’s far more No’s of Men. We are still a small community on here spread out over a vast area / different countries.
You would think all are searching / wanting ANR Type relationship yet reading many profiles there are so many differing wants , needs, desires, & profiles to match up to. As any internet site were going to get Game players of either sex with ulterior motives other than ABF/ANR. I come on here & like to post & chat , I know that my wants / requirements plus my age & Being Male mean my Chances are slim to Non existence – Though I have & do chat with 2-3 women
I’d like more – only Distance & what they want might mean we won’t meet , That’s just how it goes.
I’m very serious in my intentions I realise that not all are for varying reasons.
So I try & take a positive but relaxed attitude to the site,. Good Luck to All.I agree. There is time wasting on here. But sometimes all you can do is chat.
I love to be breastfed by a woman on a regular schedule. I would love to suckle many times a day. But I live too far away. And the pandemic has stopped travel.
I am retired and have the time to devote ANR, ABF.
I have been ghosted too.
Most males stand no chance of finding a female partner. That is how is for males. We are ignored.My favorite candidates are the ones who lean against the gender fence for a good, long belly achin’ vis a vis the incredible folly inherent in online dating. Complain, complain, complain, that’s all the “complainers” ever do.
The complainers all think their personal dating counterparts are somehow “worse” than anyone else’s. They’ll author a long-winded, 1-sided, selfish, sympathy-baiting whine-fest filtered through a worldview positing “self” as “victim” vs. the same old, tired, uncouth world that’s been out there since we were all born. It’s nothing new under the sun, but the complainers don’t know that: it’s their first encounter with the big bad world and they’re not sure how to handle it.
I like people who complain as if this is their first weekend spent on the internet. It’s cute!
I love the rantings of someone who’s never online dated before, in their lives. And now, here they are: mid-2021, naively aghast. Yes, welcome to The Game, kiddo!
These complainers don’t quite know “where” they are. They’ve only just now been hit with the reality of what “online dating” is, and they’re shocked. Their first instinct is “correct” it, which is of course like attempting to correct the tide.
The complainers don’t see the same failings in themselves yet, of course, but they certainly see it in others! That’s their juiciest part.
Even though we’re all going through the same search, my favorite encounters are with the ones who think their search is “more” frustrating or “more” tedious than everyone else’s. That’s always good for a long, satisfying laugh. Especially when the complainer feels entitled to cry a dense river of “corrective advice” without so much as a single paragraph break. Those are the best complaints running.
We get all kinds here in ANR-land, but one thing’s for sure: we all wish each other Good Luck In Our Search™ and in the end, that’s all that really matters. And, with that said: Good Luck In Your Search™
Your way off base with this . when you think something is when its not you get yourself into a lot of trouble. No bigger complainer and whiner than him. And hes the one that is worst.
Thank you for your kind words. Its not very nice what he did at all. Then does the ghost crap so very immature and childish. And the line about no time really no time , but has lots of time to be on the sites for hrs. Ya when they give excuses they are just lies. And by saying that and being on the sites for so long just shot that excuse all to hell just made himself a big lier , would never believe anything he says. When you make excuses they usually backfire in your face.like his just did.
Sorry for your frustrations!! It stinks to be ghosted!! Maybe it’s best for you.. Try to find the good outta it!!
Maybe he wasn’t for you! Maybe he is a super creeper 🤪
Don’t give up!!
🦋I think your right about that jules . hes a very strange person. Big ego self important etc . clams to be educated??
Just likes stringing people along and isnt serious. Then makes up excuses. And complains about people that are doing what hes doing himself but hes way worst. No wonder no one wants to meet up with him and flake him. Leads you to think one thing then pulls that. Seems hes into one time things. And thats not right or fair to the other person.
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