Honestly sometimes and this maybe shocking but I’m kinda glad when someone does that to me because it means I have nothing more to do, I’m not gonna sit here thinking what did I do or what she done and etc etc it’s not good for your mental health, plus that also means your paying anything more than you what you was gonna do pay for hotels, travel and stuff.
Rejection is most likely protection.
What will be will be
Blessings man.