Super disappointing behavior

[Nocturnal Wonderland]

So sorry this happens to many. I wonder what the psychology is? Do they intentionally deceive? Or do they maybe have some sort of condition that causes them to act in this way? Could be all the above?

[Just Jay]

Honestly sometimes and this maybe shocking but I’m kinda glad when someone does that to me because it means I have nothing more to do, I’m not gonna sit here thinking what did I do or what she done and etc etc it’s not good for your mental health, plus that also means your paying anything more than you what you was gonna do pay for hotels, travel and stuff.

Rejection is most likely protection.
What will be will be

Blessings man.

[Art]

I thought I had found someone who seemed compatible, we chatted a bit and I managed to set up a travel day just to meet for a lunch / dinner / drink, nothing further planned. She said to let her know when I was in the area, that was her last message. She might have logged in since then but no more messsages. Being ghosted isn’t fun but it does provide a reality check for better or worse.

[Anonymous]

I think it is very disappointing to say the least, sometimes very hurtful to open up and let someone in only for them to remain silent after one or no meet up. One guy even asked me why I was so cautious with compliments: because I don’t believe (them since actions rarely match up). I am respectful and if I see a reason not to continue, the mature thing is to explain in a sensitive manner. They may not agree or want to overcome the objection but that’s much better than uncertainty. Just stop damaging it for other guys and even yourself! The next woman you speak to may be difficult to crack because they just encountered someone like you!

[Jessica 🍓🥛]

I’ve been burned by 4 guys from here… Well,5 if you count someone who was only ever a platonic friend that stabbed be pretty badly in the back.
The worse one was the guy who knew I was vulnerable, and preyed on me. He “loved” me… He was just really looking for some kind of online entertainment. Apparently,hurting women was entertaining to him. I wasn’t the first. Apparently I was the 4th that I know of and I’m sure there is more after.

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