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I don’t believe a majority of members in this website are serious about connecting or finding partners, after many years of transparency and attempt to talk and learn more about people. prove me wrong!
I don’t think it’s a problem with people being serious. it’s more of an issue that a lot of guys are immature and are inappropriate towards women. after many inappropriate and immature messages a lot of women have become jaded, truthfully I don’t blame them. As men we need to stop seeing them as fantasy dispensers and instead see them as the intricate beautiful people that they are. In no way am I saying that I’m perfect, I now know in my early days I wrote some really bad messages and for that I’m sorry.
What Brian said. Just because I won’t give a stranger my home address or send sexy pics does not mean I am not serious about wanting to meet a real partner.
Can’t blame the website. I have to say being very visible on the site always helps with the comfort level. At the same time, really horrible experiences with guys leaves a horrible feeling in my mouth. At the same time wonderful people are also there. But I hear you. Don’t give up. Your profile suggests a sensitive person that any woman would like to get to know more. Talking to people about this helps.
Everyone is here for their own reasons. They don’t have to explain them or justify them to anyone else, regardless of what their intentions are.
Don’t give up brother I’ve been here since the site was created. Had many experiences long and short. Just have to be patient and do your own thing and check on the site occasionally. It took me a long time to realize this. Doesn’t help that its niche so there isn’t a big pool of people to interact with. It’s probably for the best. Speaking from experience. Haven’t given up yet.
come join the audio chat Sat nights to try to meet more people that are interested in connecting.
@TJR, I fo not agree. I think people who are here just to harass other people have no business being on here. Unfortnunately women are often judged even for being on here and that seems to be an excuse for being rude.
Live and let live.So I think you are wrong, Don, but safety is an issue. Its a big step to meet up with a guy you dont know. Takes a lot of courage. Also: its very hard to find your ideal match.
Why do you think most women are here for? Its not just a dating site, you know. Read profiles, i gues you have done that?I agree with hike new here specifically a lot of guys try to use any site as a hook up site. This area of intimacy is unique and requires a different type of relationship. Because of that the women who choose to nurture us are going to be much more selective in who they choose to embrace this with.
There is an issue with men Ofcourse not making women feel comfortable to be open or approach or explore however due to some of those men unrealistic expectations it seems the rest gets generalized and marginalized in the same categories. Which inherently is hurting such community
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