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Why block someone for not being able to show up to chat at a predetermined time without asking for or waiting for an explanation. Sometimes things come up that prevent someone from getting back on the site at the anticipated time. Lives and careers are busy and often throw obstacles in the way of good intentions and even desires.
This appears personal and specific. Have you asked this to the person you were due to meet?
Sadly there’s lots of posts like this over the years.
If he chooses to react this way, then he is showing you little grace and respect. You don’t want that in your life anyways. As disappointing as it is, it’s the truth. Everyone faces situations like these, it hurts nonetheless, but shake it off and find the next person who will show you what you deserve. You got this.
Sounds like you may have jumped the shark Yogi! 🤗🤗
There is much more going on in life. ANR is just one aspect of life. Some don’t understand that.
Meh, I’ve been blocked for less.
I suspect there are additional things associated with the blocker’s action. But, regardless I can understand how the action is hurtful and I believe the action saved you from more hurt.
@ericstrattan
Dodging “petulant” bullets is a super power! xoxo
I found that in real life some people tend to get upset if life happens and plans change. I believe that the issue is lack of empathy and maturity. If somebody can’t understand that your life keeps moving regardless of your perceived relationship on this website then they are potentially deficient in one or both of these areas; generally you want to steer clear of those people. By becoming romantically or sexually involved with them, you’re only setting yourself up for failure.
Besides everybody takes life way too seriously anyway. We’re all going to be dead in a few years (most likely 60ish for me) so who gives af. Life is short and you can’t sweat the small stuff.
It is easy to assume that it was a purposeful block he made. I have accidentally blocked a person or two before and didn’t know it. We all should check our block-list from time to time. I am guessing there is something on your screen when you go to his page that says he is blocked. But I don’t think it is that obvious. Now if he left a snide remark before blocking you… you have been saved from a nightmare.
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