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March 31, 2022 at 11:50 am #119691
I agree with a lot of the above but I’m gonna say this, the people who need to read these are the people who never will. Unfortunately.
March 31, 2022 at 2:53 pm #119733God I wish I could @ all the people who need to read it. I was debating on titling this “How to get a successful meet” but that would have been deceitful and treated it as a manipulation tactic.
March 31, 2022 at 3:49 pm #119750Anonymous
Inactive@juicy The people who need to read these are the people who never will.”
So very true, you could apply this statement to sooo many instances in life 😆 It would make a great demotivational poster if someone has the skills to knock it up 🤔🙂
March 31, 2022 at 8:26 pm #119832@jen34ff Those are some funny lines!😜😂🤣 That should be another forum topic.😜
@juicyboobies Grog doesn’t live in the Emerald isles. Please don’t defriend me.😬🥺😢😭
I believe compliments aren’t something that should be used sparingly. Plenty of times I’ll see someone’s profile circle and send them a deserved compliment.
Other times one lady changes her flower for another. Voila compliment.
Time distance nor shielding block a Groggy compliment. Unless , of course, I’m blocked.😜😂🤣March 31, 2022 at 10:30 pm #119885Anonymous
InactiveAwesome read! I totally agree with it all.
April 1, 2022 at 4:09 am #120028Anonymous
InactiveYou are so correct on everything on your post.
I am very tired of being contacted by men with no intention of moving,and I will swat down a friend request every time I get one for that reason.
Like others on here,tired of the drive-thru additude as if this compares with running to the corner store for a pint of milk when they feel like it.
Also,if I want to spend my time chatting with someone far away that I’ll never meet,I can just go to Facebook.
Thank you for posting and and seeing what we see as women on here!April 1, 2022 at 8:11 pm #120293Anonymous
InactiveAll excellent points and may this information reach the ones that need it most 🙂
April 5, 2022 at 6:37 pm #121738I fully agree with the original post. I’ve only been a member for a few weeks, and if I hadn’t already found some interesting people to chat and meet with I probably would bounce. At first my profile was not very specific and so I was understanding with the plethora of private messages that were from people that I could tell were not going to be good matches. There’s no way I could have responded to them all individually (50+ in the first 2 weeks!) So I drafted a form response and replied to them all, and simultaneously got way more specific on my profile. The messages and friend requests continued to roll in, some obviously not even having read my profile or what I was looking for. So I updated my profile again to say that I am not currently accepting friend requests or private messages, and they continue to roll in. It’s just downright irritating now, and I don’t have any problem deleting and ignoring the new ones at this point. I though there were some female members who were harshly upfront about what was acceptable, but now I totally get it. Some men really need to start thinking with the heads containing a brain 🙄
September 3, 2024 at 6:31 pm #479428THANK YOU
September 7, 2024 at 1:11 am #480605I’ve always legit thought this was a guy thing but lemme tell you women have done this to me and it always throws me off. I’m in Michigan I’m not traveling overseas to suck some titties. I’m fine with just chatting and making friends but when you hit me up like “I’d let you suck my boobs” and I look at her account and she is in the UK it be annoying me like sure you cute and have nice titties but you nowhere near me like at all 😭😭
September 9, 2024 at 5:40 pm #481594I had a local girl send me a friend request, I sent a couple DMs back and never heard anything. Then like a week later her account is deleted. Ok. Then why reach out to me if you have zero intention of communicating.
November 29, 2024 at 6:17 pm #514033Totally agree, unless it is for genuine friendship without benefits (no nudes, camming etc). I got quite disheartened here due to men pretending to want a proper relationship when I initially joined and not really being serious about their intentions. I won’t name them, but one was from the US and initially wanted friendship then when he suggested a date to meet (and I agreed), I was ghosted; the other was local to me and less than 30 min away, always busy due to work/commitments etc (but actually always online here talking to other women).
Like Steve said, I get that men like our assets and bodies, but we have feelings, we are not a milk bar, or a quick fix or a snack. If your intentions are just a hook-up, sporadic sex, or friends with benefits say so from the start. I get that many guys will pretend to want a relationship just to get some nudes, dirty talk, sexting or even an affair/hook-up sex, but that is being dishonest;it’s also manipulation. The end is NOT justified by the means and Karma is real.
There are also some men here that are free, genuinely willing and seeking a partner and perhaps being played on by women who are not single or not even planning to meet. This type of behaviour feeds the ego, not the soul…and will leave you unsatisfied in the long run but also isn’t very nice. What comes around goes around…
Life is hard enough, everyone deserves a significant other they can trust and feel at ease with, please be mindful of your interactions. The above nonsense and a few other things drove me to calling it quits with relationships at all for the near future and while I am ok with it, it did hurt at the time and for many people it can cause serious distress and even, mental health issues.
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