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How do we as women meet up and stay safe? Maybe that’s a dumb question, but there’s some people on here that maybe I’d want to meet up with. How does one ensure that they’re safe? It’s not like you can whip your boobs out in the middle of a cafe 😂. It’s a little different than online dating.
How do you get past the nerves of whipping out your girls in front of a total stranger? Even if it’s something you want
I recommend a meetup in a relaxing public location. Go for a cup of coffee where you can sit and have nice conversation and get to know each other. Then give yourself time away to see how you feel about the person. If you still feel comfortable and want to meet have a friend you can text how the evening is going in case things are concerning you have an out and you won’t feel alone knowing someone is checking in with you.
If the person you are meeting doesn’t want to wait then they are probably not the right person.
Always be safe. I speak from personal experience.When you do meet in person for the first time, have a friend that you check in with. Give them the information for who you are meeting, how long you expect to be and where. Then message the person when you leave
Public place as
Others said. Make sure there are plenty of people and plenty of cars so it’s hard for them to follow you after. You will want to try and go slow and have a couple of meeting to feel the person out before you get more serious and intimate with them. It’s all about building trust.Good communication is first step. Communicate and see how you feel about each other. Exchange pictures and/ or do video call and see how you feel. If you get good vibes, meet in person at public place first and then take it forward from there. Sometimes in person is all together different feelings. Take your time until you feel comfortable. May take few meetings or may feel instant connection.
If any guy will actually ever meet in person, it would be the same as dating to meet in a public place first.
I’ve always met in person at a coffee shop or ice cream (if they don’t like coffee).
But before I take it to that next level to meet, I make sure I get a good vibe from our communication. I usually give it at least 2 weeks in talking/ chatting to see if he is consistently Respectful and communicates well. Then before meeting, I make it clear on boundries.
I can’t tell you how many times we get to a hotel (I refuse to do car play) since I am the one exposed ,I refuse to get into trouble for any kind of decent exposure lol but back to the hotel comment… I’ll be asked even after boundaries are spoken of …if they can “undress”.
If you are ok with that. Let them know. If you are not. Let them know
Usually for me it’s a no, because zi see where their mind is going with it.
And then…moving forward. And only if you are comfortable YOU get to decide how you show your boobs. Top on , top off. As the woman, you should maintain complete control. Wearing sexy things, lingerie, nursing bras, cleavage teasing clothing should come later AFTER you have met up a few times.
And if at any anytime you feel uncomfortable. Go the bathroom and call/ text your person. Have a safety plan in place. If you are still at the coffee shop..text out your safeword and your person should call you (with a fake emergency) to get you to leave! My fav…babysitter says my kid is vomiting…🙂 and leave! 🙂
Two times I linked up with someone on this site we met up at a hotel nearby me. First one we kinda chilled for a bit having conversations until she was comfortable enough to whip her boobs out. The other one came over had small talk for like 5 minutes then whipped her boob out lol I think I was just as nervous as them
Safety concerns work both ways. (We men need to be cautious, too.)
Quick story: I was recently contacted via email by a “woman” (not from this site, btw), who wanted to meet up at a hotel (at her expense), but refused to have even a phone conversation prior to, never sent me pics, didn’t even want to meet up first for coffee in a public place prior to going to the hotel.
I declined “her” offer. I was thinking that this could be a setup for a robbery (or worse). Who could say whether there might be a male accomplice or two hiding in the hotel room with her. Not worth the risk, IMO.
I wonder how many overly-eager boob-crazed men would have jumped at this chance, without thinking of the possible consequences. We all know how scarce the ABF field is, but that’s no excuse to throw caution to the wind and jeopardize one’s personal safety.
So glad I found this chat. I think about the safety concerns of meeting someone on this site—or any site—quite a bit. I’m new to ANR, although I’ve been interested in inducing for 20+ years.
Next week I will start self-inducing following a particular protocol with a successful history. I am very excited. So thereafter, I hope to share my bounty with a special partner. ☺️
I appreciate all the tips you’ve shared from your experiences. I’m hoping that taking these precautions, plus using my own intuitive senses, will help ensure my safety. It’s a scary world out there. Be safe my friends. ✌🏻
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