I think often times people mistake sex as negative and being respectful is the absence of one exhibiting their sexuality.
I believe respect and sexuality are entirely two differemt outer agencies, social cathexis or taxonomies. There is no hierarchy or specified litmus that one should adhere to; when Considering sexuality or being Respectful.
Now in terms of Litmus getting acquainted with a Woman and terms of engagement. It is important to respect a Woman’s wishes and approach her in a certain manner that is non offensive, don’t ask her any sexual questions Only if she initiates the subject. Yes I do feel it is necessary and very important to ask sexual questions of a Woman that you may find as a potential mate, for compatibility purposes. But should not be discussed at the onset of the conversation.
There is a vetting process emotionally with Woman, before you can get to their intimate side. Tension and Security typically needs to be created in a Woman’s mind before she feels open enough to let you inside.
If a woman turns you down merely say thank you and move on. Two things will happen.
(A) She wasn’t meant for you and you are getting closer to the woman of your dreams which is right around the corner.
(B) She turned you down today but she is thinking about coming back to you tomorrow because you already began building tension with her and you are on her mind.
Just some advice.
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