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I have had a number of replies from men asking me about how they can be more successful. This really is an open-ended question. So, as apart of my curiosity in what others are doing, I read though some ads posted by men. And honestly the number one cause of failure is a lack of respect for the women they seek to serve.
Here are three of the most disrespectful posts I had the misfortune of reading:
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***“Any ladies want me to drain their milky titties? I’ll be free the 26th around noon.”******“Where are the attractive women in North Dallas who can help a guy endulge. No Fatties”***
***“Yes I know it sounds ridiculus but I want to put it out there! Ever feel the need for someone to just suck and play with your fun bags? No strings, no expectations, just good ole fashion attention and lips. I will cradle your fun bags and you can cradle mine. I am also open to receiving a blowjob in a half 69. I am short, but hung.”***
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I think three examples is enough. So yes, bad misspellings and all, I kept the wording as they wrote it. I was actually hard to choose which ones to use, as there were plenty.
Aside from this, most ads for men looking to participate in an ANR/ABF situation are rather cookie cutter. They say very little, and expect the woman to automatically be interested. Worse, when I click on their profile, I see a person who has no idea what ANR means for the woman. What I see is someone wanting a hookup. In their fetishes, they have described ten different ways about getting a blowjob. Now granted, Fetlife is about fetishes and BSDM. But at least give a few lines about ANR. Let the person know, aside from your post, that you have given it some thought. Otherwise, you look like just another guy trying to score.I couldn’t agree more about the tone of many personal ads…. But I have also chatted with some seemingly caring men on here and I am very thankful for their conversations.
This is not really a Personal Ad, it’s a discussion piece. So I’ll move it to General Discussion.
Also … I’m just wondering …who ARE these men who have been messaging you – another man – about how they can be more successful? Is this commonplace? Why are they messaging you in particular?
Well said Kevin but I also agree with Betty, there are some caring men and I too am thankful.
Thank you! 100%.
I’ve experienced quite a few men who express entitlement at seeing revealing pics, or want a boob-focused hookup. As though my desire for this kind of affection requires providing bare photos so men can shop around for breasts. Clearly OP doesn’t share this mindset, but I’ve been amused to find so many who do.
Sharing one’s body via photo or in real life is an intimate act and every lady has a different comfort level about it.
Also … I’m just wondering …who ARE these men who have been messaging you – another man – about how they can be more successful? Is this commonplace? Why are they messaging you in particular?
Oh, don’t even bother with that. “One time, at band camp…” can go on, and on forever. He’s limitless in his ability to lie and deceive others, and shameless in his self-perceived capacity to do so. He loves spinning these webs, you’re only inviting more of his favorite pastime. Loves authoring the life his ego imagines for himself. It’s a pristine example of narcissistic madness gone entirely off the mental rails. Not a word of that post is true, and it’s 100% obvious.
But look at it this way: these people are serving a utility, unbeknownst to and in spite of themselves. This post is exclusively a vehicle; it’s a bandwagon for ideological virtue signaling, for those without sufficient persona to avoid such common denominators.
It was never a “true” story. It’s a wistfully regurgitated bit of virtue signal bandwagoneering. It’s pathological and shameless. People should avoid that guy.
@lacto I don’t think I’ve ever seen you post something positive about someone 🤔 I’m all for trolling but are you trying to find someone or are you only on here to make snide remarks about others? 🤷🏻♀️ Just asking…
Anyhoooo, like others have said.. there are some decent guys on here that you can have a nice conversation but quite a lot have zero respect when interacting with the women on here. They make zero effort to get to know people and read their profiles and just talk about how much they’d like to suckle on you… ummmm Pretty sure there wasn’t an invitation most of the time 😂
I see there are different people looking for different things though, some women may like the straight up ‘show me your tits’ as they don’t want anything serious and only think of their breasts in the same manner as some men.. me personally.. I’m way more than just boobs and I ain’t sharing them (except on my blog) with anyone unless they treat me with respect and get to know me.
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