Question for the guys… What would you prefer?

[ChaoticMiss]

Ok guys, I have a question for you!
I have always tried to be polite when guys try to talk to me and I am not interested and today I got a rather rude response back. So I would greatly appreciate your take on how you would like to be let down:

A) left on read/ no response
B) find out you have been blocked
C) a nasty and negative response- Eff off
D) I appreciate the interest in my profile, however I am not interested at this time. Good luck in your search!

[LatchOn15]

I choose D but it rarely happens, most of my experience is getting A

[Creech]

All I want is honesty…..if I am not your cup of tea, then say that in a nice respectful way.

[Mr W]

D. (but I’d really prefer DD)

[Anonymous]

I agree with LatchOn15 D would be preferred. But rarely (though not never) happens. It’s usually A , because that’s the easiest.

[Grogman 🚀💙]

@chaoticmiss469 While you may feel like dishing out a “C”, I feel that a “D” is a better way to go about it.
If the perp keeps nagging you, then BLOCK ‘em. 😜

[chris]

D but like latchon15 said its almost always A.

[David]

Being that we’re a community of hopefully respectful people D would be the preference, understanding that some people lack respect and other options are necessary. I’d like to think most of us take the high road but that’s just not real life. After all of what I’ve said, I would initially respond in the tenor of the original message.

[Michael]

I would appreciate a D response. I understand receiving messages all throughout the day, time may not allow for it, but I feel as though we are all here for the same goal. At least the majority of us are.

But I agree that the majority of responses I do get are a mixture of A and B responses.

Luckily enough I have yet to receive any C type responses.

I think that says alot to the website and the type of people that are here. We are all professional and seeking something magical and I really appreciate everyone here.

[Nick]

@chaoticmiss469 I think both will be better with D, but doesn’t happen all the time. Most of the time it is A or B.

[Brian]

Would definitely appreciate D. However I understand that the other options might need to be used if the person is being a real pain.

[Brian]

I’m a big boy, and can handle A thru D.

[whitecaps]

D… but honestly you’re you have every right to respond as you wish. Sorry you were subjected to the rude behavior, he deserves A-C.

[latch on]

I get mostly As and have had a few Bs.
D is preferred.

[Art]

If D doesn’t get your point across then A. If it feels like harassment then none of the above, contact admin.

[Author]

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