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Well maybe you should suggest it to the admin here that it needs to be a check box on the profile form. That said, not every man here is deceptive about his status. I understand to some degree. In my PM conversations I’ve been given a bit of revelation as to what some men feel free to say to the women on here. Not that it is an excuse or to be accepted but that is the nature of the internet where we all hide a part of ourselves. There are good and bad aspects to meeting people off of the internet. And it is probably wiser to reveal more of one’s self in PMs, not in public forums. But as I’ve already stated, I agree that at some point whether men or women, their status should be freely spoken of.
We’re adults here and from my limited survey, most of us are older. No need for backhanded slurs or off-the-cuff accusations that I have seen in replies on various threads here. I understand we all bring our past experiences with us. But sometimes women as well as the men have unwarrented expectations. I saw this recently in a reply:
Men who want super models: “He’s a misogynist!”
Women who want a superman: “She deserves her own preferences.”What can I say?
Years ago I met a married man here, who described himself as “separated”. Stan was charming, good looking and close by, all good. We chatted for a couple of weeks and then met for coffee. As agreed there was no physical contact and we met three days later. Nature took its course and after an hour of nursing I found out what was up.They shared a house, bed, table and bank accounts,he was separated how?
So what I am trying to say is both parties take your time, check each other out and try to make good choices.The one good thing is that I was that I got a great introduction to ANR, and asked myself where has this been all my life?
I was thinking about this overnight and also while at the gym today. I realized that the argument is fairly one-sided. The presumption is that it’s only men who hide their status. Also, some men might thing there are things that women hide or things that they think is important to know that I know would irritate to no end if they made a request for its mention in the profile requirements.
All in all. There are women here who don’t care about the status. They’re more interested in the person. Not all women here are here to meet up so it doesn’t make a difference or they live half way around the world and just enjoy the chat. I am not dismissing your point. Just pointing out it’s not the end-all be-all to everyone.
PROCEDURE:
Do you women pump your breasts prior to your man showing up? If not, is there anything in particular that you do prior to having him nurse on you?
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