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Let us imagine that you have met someone here and it has come time to meet. How would you desire that meeting to proceed? First meetings are a delicate time. A joke misinterpreted. Either an immediate attraction or… shall we leave it to be, disappointed. Let us assume the former. That there is an attraction. Where do you see it proceeding from here?
Different people have different levels of comfort with meeting new potential ABF or ANR partners. And meeting someone from a distance places a different level of need/expectation as well. Best to discuss with the person you want to meet. Explore options….just a meet and greet?…A meet with option to nurse if both feel comfortable? Be sure to set up expectations (and be honest about your own) ahead of time so that you minimize the possibility of disappointment or crossed signals.
Yogi, I understood the variables. There are lot of them as in all relationships. Perhaps I was actually asking people to share one of their meets, the best or the worst of them.
This is where I see this site/internet being a major plus. It has so many negatives but at least there is an advantage of meeting already knowing that there is a goal, in this case, to have physical intimacy via breast suckling. That is NOT something you have when simply meeting off the cuff. All the game playing and dancing around is alleviated. You both know that you are meeting for a specific purpose with the hope that there is some of that chemistry to go along with it. So if you would, would you kindly share a story?
Oh boy. Yes I have a very good one but don’t have time to type it out tonight. Thanks for the memory. I haven’t thought about her for a long time.
Hi Buster!
Here is one of my experiences. I met my partner here on the site. We talked for a couple of months before meeting in person. Our first visit was at a coffee shop and our only expectation of that meeting was to see if we had any kind of chemistry at all. Once we did realize that chemistry was there we further discussed what our expectations of an ANR looked like and went in with both eyes open. Our subsequent dates and relationship was always very open communication wise and it was only then that we realized we had very different levels of commitment. We broke off the relationship as friends and still to this day we talk
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ChaoticMissChaoticMiss, thank you for sharing. sorry it didn’t work out. I don’t understand why people are not totally upfront when they describe themselves or their situations. What do they expect when you finally meet? Honesty is always the best policy. However, I can see why many men here think how great it would be to suckle women’s breasts but deep down it’s “upstairs window shopping for downstairs merchandise.” It might not be intentional but IMHO, if you’re mature, you know damn well what you’re up to.
Kudos that you remained friends. Can never have enough of the good ones.
It was asked that I should share an experience. I’ll try to keep this short.
I want to say it 15 yrs? ago. I do remember she was 50yrs old. Petite woman, vibrant, energetic, very upbeat. We met at the chrome donut there in Chicago. It wasn’t a nice day. Misting and I had my big umbrella walking from the parking garage. She had her big umbrella. For a while we just stayed in under the donut and talked and ugoogle eyeing each other. They had a large tent set up next to the donut for some reason. And it was a good thing it was there as the misting turned into a down pour. We followed the crowd into the tent and found a quiet corner, using our umbrellas to shield ourselves from all those public eyes. Strangely, no one paid any attention to us -life in the big city I guessed. She lifted her blouse, offering me a touch and then to taste of her small but magnificent breasts with very erect, pointed nipples.
Public displays of emotion are not really my thing but it was a moment in time where hell be damned. Eventually the rain let up and we followed the crowds back outside and walked down into a large garden which I had never seen before. There she offered herself to me again despite a bunch of HS kids across the street on an elevated walkway cheered us on. We eventually made it back to my car in one of the city parking garages where I enjoyed myself immensely sucking on her breasts. She apparently enjoy my attention enough to invite to her apartment where she sat at one end of her couch having me lay down, cradling my head in her lap as I began a long session of sucking on her wonderful breasts.
We met several times after that. She had felt comfortable enough to share with me that her goal was really to begin to lactate. She was single, never married and never having been pregnant and confessed that it would be an uphill battle. This was something completely new to me. However, with much energy, we pursued it together, gathering information which, over time, would hopefully aid her in developing the ability to produce milk. She wanted to produce enough milk so as to be able to donate to a hospital for new mothers who couldn’t produce enough milk on their own. That was her goal. We bought a used, dual breast pump and she began regularly using it along with a regulated diet. Then it happened. The story of my life. She got transferred to Florida where her father lived. It wasn’t long after that that the emails dwindled and we lost track of one another. That was the beginning of a whole new way of looking and enjoying a woman’s breasts for me.
https://www.tumblr.com/edoardojazzy/728867571578863616/lamorbidamacchina-antonio-palmerini-via?source=shareI think that the first thing one needs to be honest about is whether they are single or married. Because regardless of whether one is seeking casual or relationship minded interactions, both partners have the right to know whether their actions are occurring within someone’s marriage.
No argument from me. When accused of going after a woman, James Bond denied it, “That wasn’t me.” Then asked, “Why not?” To which James replied, “She wasn’t married.”
I guess that begs the question….suave or sleezy?
I have just left a work conference where there was a group 5 of us single ladies in our 40s discussing dating life. Regardless of the platform used (even a Christian dating site) and the fact that their profiles clearly said single men only, they too struggled with the number of men who approached them only to later be told they were married several dates in.
I hate that because it makes that much less eager to meet several times in person to have that shoe drop. This naturally prolongs the online chat period as well.
Back to Buster’s question, I prefer to chat and build rapport first. If I can’t build the rapport online (sadly virtual communication has become an integral part of regular communication) then I most definitely won’t be able to do in person.
Once the rapport has been established, then geography factor comes into play. If they are close, then I would typically meet in person at a 3rd party location. If they are farther afield, then prolonged digital communication ensues but this time more frequent and intentional leveraging voice or video calling as well. Eventually we reach a decision to meet after discussing the realities of a long distance relationship and build from there.
Agent Rose, you’re going to think I’m lying but I was think’n about this very thing today. Because kids today do all their communication on electronic devices I was wondering if they are able to carry on a reasonable face-to-face conversation. Many people today have lost the art of a lively conversation. My mother had penpals and once or twice I became penpals with one of the daughters. That old pen and ink, stamp and envelope and wait and wait and wait and wait for a reply. I imagine letter writing is all but lost today as well. What is going to happen when an EMP destroys all our electronic devices? People will walk around like zombies.
I don’t know what your point is Lotus. I drive a VW. I’m not as fast as you are.
It gets very frustrating indeed, when the married men on here do not have the courage to post in their profile that they are married. Regardless if they are separated or sleeping in separate bedrooms etc.
Married is married, in a relationship is in a relationship. It’s such a waste of everyone’s time and they can’t be trusted right off the bat. Because they aren’t even being honest about what they’re looking for and want.
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