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Question 2: c and e – It would be nice to have to have a place where you could see everyone that online rather than a short list that you have to keep refreshing. Also I feel like some sort of verification factor to make sure people are real would be good too. I’m not sure what that would be but many of us have come across scammers or what seem like AI bots on occasion which just ends up being a waste of time. I like everything else about the site and I think Micheal does a phenomenonal job of keeping this site up and running for all of us.1) D – I’ve made some really great friends on here
2) More puzzles! 🤣Qualitydrink49
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Essex/LondonQ1, D and E feel it’s important to connect with everyone
F. For me its the best site I’ve found in my ABF/ANR journey. I’ve meet some fantastic people and have a good connection with many, some I feel just don’t want to meet.
2. It’s great as it is, does need more people to input more though. Samefew each and every day, which is great.1.) D, E, and, F
2.) D plus a way to keep the catfish/scammers off the group
1 – D and E
2 – E . . More people into ABF in general would be fantastic, as would be having them on this site, of course 😊 I like the idea of regional sub-groups, too, to facilitate communication and hopefully allow people to make some closer contacts.
Not sure what to tell you on the bad behavior issue. Seems to be a problem that plagues all chat sites, since the anonymity of online chat can bring out the worst in people. Just have to keep booting them as problems arise.
1. E.
2. Slight rant.
As a previous host for local events, (meet n greets) It was disappointing to be the one to pay up front costs for a (reservation) at a resturant. (Usually $100) to reserve this space for 10 ANR ppl after receiving verbal confirmations that they would come ..but in reality only 2 ppl showed up for the last meet n greet i tried to be involved in. When 15-20 confirmed. This isn’t the site’s fault, but back in the day…your word use to mean something. 🙂 I will always be a advocate for open discussion, education and building a community but.. ppl need to understand that you get back (energy) what you put into it.Chats are great. But they are not convenient for us night shift workers. So, I miss out on alot of chat and banter due to other obligations.
Distance will ALWAYS be a factor. Blaiming the site for the lack of geographically users is crazy silly to me lol after 15 years..of being involved in the anr community.. location and distance has always been a problem. Most interactions and discovering ppl who become friends or aquintences over time are hours apart. usually 2+ for me! But totally worth the drive, if you make that connection.
I hope this helps. 🥰😘
Thank you!!! Sending warm wishes to you and happy new year. It will be a month of hard work with my post-grad XD maybe love will follow someday…
Re unusual behaviour, I left the site initially because of it and so far my experiences with 80% of men here who interacted for a possible relationship have not been great, but I had a few unsettling and awful experiences which I shared with Michael and in my live audio (not giving names) happy to share with you too.
It’s also why the note on my profile, as I do not like games or dishonesty and for the moment and after being single last few years by choice, now have gone off relationships altogether…at least for the immediate future.
🦋🦋🦋 I love butterflies and I can share my reasons with you sometime. Yes definitely energy in and energy out, nothing gets wasted. 15 years is definitely a long time, would love your input on your journey sometime. Yes it’s a big country/world and a small community so hopefully we can all live in peace together spreading good cheer and showing other groups how it’s done.
So sorry Elayne. Let’s talk whenever you’re free. As someone who completed the D in education, I wish you all the best and will cheer for you. It’s definitely a great accomplishment. 🥰😍
#1 C&F,
#2:C&E – a way to bookmark favorite members.
Other than that, it would be appreciated if those who received pics from me would send theirs.I hear you. Our pics are our own and we share a part of ourselves when we share a picture. I appreciate the honesty in your profile and the yearning you portray.
1. D/E
2. The only thing I can think of (and it’s probably just a me thing and absolutely my device) is whenever someone sends me an audio message it never plays for me if I’m logged in on my and I have to go to my laptop to listen (I can record them just fine from my phone). Also love the puzzles so another game of some sort would always keep me busy.
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