Owning what I want: Why I use a real photo

[@mobchip]

Hey all. At 41, I decided it was time to stop overthinking and just be real about what I want. I am here because I genuinely want the bonding, comfort, and connection that comes with ANR and or ABF.

​Putting my actual face as my avatar was a deliberate choice. I want to show that I am a real, grounded guy looking for an authentic connection. I understand and respect why many members need privacy, but for me, being open has brought a real sense of freedom.

​Work life and personal boundaries will always stay separate, but I am done hiding what I like. It feels good to just own it.

[Quiet Place]

I can not love this post enough!!!

[milkywhey]

I respect this mindset a lot.

[🌸🌸]

I totally agree. While I don’t use my photo in my profile, I do share my face pic super early. If people are hiding on here, it’s for a reason!

[DeeDee]

Right on Michael, this is exactly why my profile pic is of my chest 🫡

[@mobchip]

Thanks for the replies, I really appreciate them all. 🙏😊

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