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I am a newbie at this, but amazed at all the stories of meetups and multiple nursing sessions with no sex. How do you disconnect that? Nursing is so intimate to me, but maybe it’s because I am deeply connected to the guy who nurses me. Or does this happen and it just isn’t mentioned. For me, nursing is erotic and I can’t seem to manage to separate the two so I think I’m in trouble, haha. He’s 45 seconds in and I’m all hot and distracted. Curious how this works for the rest of you, do you disconnect it or just not talk about it?
I have yet to officially nurse as a part of the ANR community. I’ve suckled partners I was with at the time and yes, it’s been very erotic and sexual and I believe that’s more of what I would enjoy.
However, if I had the opportunity, I would be extremely open to the more suckling-focused session. Is that the proper term, “session”? I don’t want to seem crude.
My reason being that I think the level of intimacy skyrockets without needing to perform. Will I be aroused? Extremely. But I feel like feeling close to my partner, feeling the love they’re giving me by allowing me to latch on and share this moment with them…. Well, I’d be crazy to say no to something so intimate, let alone be uninterested.
That being said, I’m totally with you. It’s super hot and how much closer can I be to you other then literally being inside of you while I suckle. On paper, it’s just awesome. But the latter I think offers a different/intimate perspective on the types of doors an ANR connection can open.
To me they are inseparable. Breast sucking always lead to touching, kissing and intercourse, they just happen naturally. And suckling after sex is even more relaxing more bonding.
Breastfeeding is an erotic experience for me. Something always seems to pop up.😜 Once past that issue, breastfeeding is a wonderful shared experience. Something needed in any relationship in my future.
Is it possible to suckle without having sex? It certainly is. It takes a bit of self control.
Probably easier as the two of you have more frequent breastfeeding sessions.As a newbie it’s like being a baby vampire, you have to learn to self control think of it more as a tantric methodology. The pleasure, sensations and connection is present; it’s relaxing for both parties. It’s definitely takes practice.
Can sex be a non factor? yes! Do many men (I don’t know about the ladies) want that? No!
Ultimately, everyone should do what works for them.
So far I’ve only experienced suckling for three sessions, but I hope to enjoy more as the months go by. What attracts me to this is the power of a woman’s breasts to comfort and relax. I find it a natural source of relief and escape from the madness of everyday life, a chance to really unwind and let go of stress. I feel so content and connected to my partner by just latching on and suckling the hours away.
Neither of us are looking for sex, just to explore the magic of suckling. Having said that, I can be physically aroused without wanting to be, but not mentally ‘turned on’; and the pleasure of having her breasts suckled has certainly stimulated her senses, but only because it’s a new experience for her.
So to answer your question – yes, it is possible to enjoy suckling without anything sexual. It just depends on what each person wants and enjoys from suckling. So as long as you and your partner enjoy your time together, it doesn’t matter whether you are sexually aroused or not.
I prefer to focus on the indescribable feeling of nursing because it’s so difficult to find time just for that. Sex is always a possibility, there’s never a lack of it. But nursing time…there is always a shortage. That’s what I love about ANR,you can set aside time just for nursing and a partner will be very excited for that. A non ANR man will guide the energy toward sex each time and not absorb the deep connected feelings.
As with most things, communication is key. For me personally, I would be a terrible liar if I said I didn’t find myself getting aroused while nursing, however a meet for me doesn’t have to be all about sex. I make sure going in to a meet with someone I know what we are both comfortable with and can happily treat it as more of a relaxing time with no expectation of anything else happening.
I can only speak for myself… I’m looking for the nursing experience. Yes, I will be aroused, but that’s not the connection that I’m seeking. If my partner signals that she wants it to go there – I could possibly go with that, but again, I’m there for the nursing. No performance anxiety, and it’s so satisfying… I feel like it’s a closer connection and a more meaningful bond. I’m not against sex, in any way, in fact I like it a lot. I suppose there’s room for both. But I’m extremely happy with nursing alone. Just my thoughts… 🙂
I would say it depends on exactly how you feel about your nursing partner. With some, the nursing was as far as I was willing to go. But it might have turned out differently if the atmosphere was different. There is a certain appeal in keeping a nursing relationship platonic. Sometimes, contrary to popular belief, we just don’t like you that way.
It’s all about communication. I’m personally not looking for penetration at all….although if my partner becomes aroused and wants to handle things themselves, that’s OK with me….I make that known up front so it shouldn’t be a surprise to my partner.
Breastfeeding gets me very wet and gets him very hard. I have a hard and fast rule of no penetrative sex but hands and mouths come into play after breastfeeding. It’s very fulfilling. The couple times I was breastfed and there was no fingers or mouths, I played with my toys as soon as he left. It’s hard not to.
I consider this sexual and it is a turn on. Doesn’t mean I’m looking for sex though. Set boundaries before meeting to avoid any awkward situations 🙂
Breastfeeding is a sexual activity for me but it doesn’t need to involve intercourse…can’t imagine it without a happy ending though, I hate the blue balls feeling.
If sex is the goal then just have sex, that isn’t niche. Breastfeeding is much more special and a different experience.
Depends on the mood. Sometimes the feeling of nursing is all I need. But will happily help “satisfy” my partners need. Sometimes I get turned on and it leads to sex. Its only sexual if you make it that way. But I do enjoy the thought that I can make her wet.
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