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Hello all! I am new in the group. Let me throw some background to you and tell you a little about me. I’m 47, in the first year of marriage to my second Husband. I breastfeed both of my daughters for 6 months so I have experience and my Hubby’s wife also nursed his daughter (and him 🤤) as well. My Ex wasn’t a fan- said it gave him indigestion and poo-poo’ed the whole idea. I LOVED IT! My Hubby loves it but didn’t like his Ex wife, so that was short lived for them as well. I figured my ship had sailed……
Within a month of meeting Hubby, my boobs decided to swell and got extra sensitive. He was enjoying the fullness and making me squirm with delight so he paid extra attention. He wasn’t sucking for long at all, just enough to stir the crazy pot. It lasted 2 months. Over the next months, they would “flare”- swell, ache, want to be touched. It also followed suit with how my Hubby was feeling…He has severe ADHD and can get into some serious negative thought processes- adding greater stress to the stress. I could FEEL his distress but he was trying to hide it from me. We got married in Nov 2019. After the stress of the Holidays, the girls flared up as COVID was firing up. We had other personal stress come at us and we were maxed. This time, I recognized that feeling. It was that desperate to have a mouth suck on me, like I was full and bursting. So I told Hubby and when he latched on….OMG! He then tells me “I made my Ex girlfriend lactate….”. I said “No way!” He said yup…it’s possible. (Now mind you- I’m the one with 15 years in the medical field!🙄) I ran with it, researched the hell out of it and here we are!
That was back in February this year. We’ve had a lot going on since and this is my third attempt. 2020 has been a real bitch and the Hubby and I have had a hard time finding a routine that satisfies my needs. I want MOUTH, all the time. It’s not realistically possible. Hubby is having a hard time staying still long enough for his mouth to be effective enough to work. We’re working on it. The previous two times I quit I was MAXED THE HELL OUT emotionally- all I wanted to do was just lay down and let him suckle me all damn day. Hide from the world and let him have free access to me. His brain couldn’t shut down to get him on it. (We’re working on that!)
Now here’s the question- is this process so intense for everyone (meaning the ones inducing) at some point? This feels like the crazy ass pregnant mood swings. (Not a chance here, tubes cut and clamped and had a thermal ablation of my uterus in 2008- I don’t even have a period anymore!) I’m talking dry let downs, either I’m starving or I can’t eat at all, get the boo-boos ridiculously easy, just wanna stay home in my nest and tend to the girls and encourage them to make milk. However, I can get cranky in a damn hurry as well! I also turn into a starfish on Hubby and can’t keep my parts off him. It’s crazy and all over the place. Is my system in hyper drive or is this normal for most? I will throw in that that uterine connection (contractions) women have after birth with breastfeeding…mine was always there. It didn’t hurt after the first month or so. But I STILL HAVE IT. I will also start having dry let downs during orgasm as well, because those systems are tied together for me. (They weren’t dry while breastfeeding! 😁) Now mind you, the sex end plays in when I allow it to- just like when breastfeeding my kids. I know I’m in the right crowd not to have to explain that. I’ll not deny the sexual end of this exists for me but the emotional end- WOW! Completely unprepared for the level of it! Any body else relate?Wow, that sounds amazing. Every experience has been different for me. Different body reactions, different expectations, different emotions, different sensations, different needs, different everything. Personally, I’ve had multiple partners who’s breasts grew during our relationship (one from a G to an I cup) but no one has spontaneously lactated… yet! I’d love to tune into that one!
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