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I was introduced to ANR by my ex partner back in early 2019. She taught me how to latch properly etc. We enjoyed dry suckling and the intimacy it brought.
Around summer of that year we toyed around the idea of inducing lactation. Of course, I liked the idea. Who wouldn’t like to have their partner nurse them? There’s just something amazing about drinking milk that your partner has produced. It was never about milk as a physical thing, but more about my partners desire to nurse me.
Anyway moving forward a few months we found ourselves in lockdown and furloughed. We thought with all this free time we have together we might actually be able to induce! So we made a suckling ‘schedule’ and stuck to that for a few weeks but made no progress. I bought a pump for my partner and she was able to pump between sessions.
That resulted in a few drops after a couple of weeks… Success! We agreed to try domperidone to speed up the process. So I went online and managed to buy some chinese branded domperidone marketed for digestion problems (in hindsight this was a stupid idea).
All I can say is that the dom really kickstarted the process. Within a month my partner was producing quite a bit of milk each session. My partner was producing 300-500ml each day with a dose of 20mg dom 4 times a day.
We enjoyed this for a while until earlier this year. I was able to start working again and this really messed up our schedules. Being at work I was obviously not able to nurse. While my partner was pumping it just wasnt the same. If she didnt pump then her breasts and nipples would get quite tender and uncomfortable.
Sadly we made the decision to stop. This was a slow process but she stopped taking domperidone which decreased her milk production.
We did continue to nurse but after experiencing her breastfeeding me it just wasnt the same.
We split up for unrelated reasons later this year.
After this experience I came to realise the ANR lifestyle isnt for me. You really have to shape your life and job around it. It can be unfair for the woman (and painful!) if she cant pump milk regularly.
My take away from this is ANR can be better in fantasy than reality. I dont regret my past experience but I dont think I’ll be doing anything like that any time soon!
Dry suckling only for me now 🙂
You shared so many important, real-life points here. Thank you for writing this!
You have summarized the exact reason why I don’t want to induce lactation. Many guys enjoy the idea of milk but have no clue how time-consuming it is that it truly becomes a lifestyle. Thanks for writing out your experience.
Yes, thank you for a story that all of us need to know and can learn from. Everything I’ve read is in agreement. Especially from the woman’s point of view, so it’s good to hear a man voice the same.
But, when I first read the title of the post, I thought it meant the writer was done with everything about making a woman’s breasts a focal point of a relationship. I’m going to start a different topic for further discussion.
Steve you absolutely nailed it.I hope this gives everyone a better understanding of what it takes to produce milk and the time it involves. To be in an ANR relationship you have to have the time to commit yourself to your partner and understand it’s very time consuming. In today’s world it’s hard to do with work and whatever other daily activities you have going on.
I have dry nursed for years and it can be very intimate and still have a bonding connection with someone.I have been told I am not really into nursing because I am not interested in lactating, I enjoy nursing just don’t have the time to be pumping every 4 or 5 hours.
I hope more people read your post and have a better understanding of what it takes to be in a lactating relationship.
This is exactly why I’m not looking for an ANR. You need a complete change of lifestyle.
I quickly realised I’m more into dry suckling and breast & nipple play anyway 😋
Thank you for this. Everyone should read this and realise the work involved in inducing and maintaining milk supply.
Agreed, it’s not a good basis for a relationship.
I’m already lactating so there’s no issue of inducing. I’m happy for a casual relationship with someone i meet on here but could never see it turning into a real relationship, ie marridge. The basis of a real relationship should be shared values, faith, interests, the focus from here would only ever be on boobs… but that will be fun for a little bit 😉Thank you for the replies.
I’m not trying to put anyone off ANR. I’m trying to make people aware of the reality of it.
Reality is vitally important when considering something which impacts every facet of life! Thank you for sharing so candidly.
Thank you for sharing your story and perspective!
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