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Replying to the original topic – dating can be hard, no matter your gender or orientation (though I certainly wouldn’t trade my troubles for the ones women face). It’s reasonable to feel frustrated or discouraged sometimes, but I’m not sure a personals site is the venue to complain.
I’m curious about the bars and pool halls the original poster mentions. I don’t know the Dayton area, but the bars I frequent up in Cleveland are easily a 50/50 mix. Is it possible that single women would feel unsafe in the places you frequent (a 27 to 1 ratio of men to women feels like a serious red flag to me)? Where do your female friends and other women in your life hang out?
As far as online dating – the numbers are stacked against men; plus creating a profile, curating decent pictures and initiating & maintaining conversations are are all skills that need to be learned, practiced and constantly honed. But honestly if you’re willing to put in the slightest amount of legwork, it’s not so difficult to stand out from the legions of men who put in zero effort. For example, I’m an average looking guy at best (and non-monogamous to boot, which instantly eliminates 99% of the dating pool) and I manage just fine.
There’s some really good advice early in this thread if the original poster is willing to be a little introspective and not take things personally.
@sangrias that’s a really balanced reply and I agree with every point. It’s entirely acceptable for men and women to have standards and criteria for who they choose to be romantically involved with. I just can’t tolerate the BS of we don’t need a man. It’s just as toxic a message as a man saying we don’t need a woman.
It’s not about a need mostly, but more a want. And that’s perfectly normal.
Instinct you just keep digging a bigger hole. You sound like an entitled brat.
Forgot to add you sound like someone who loves to hear themself talk
I could respond but actually you aren’t worth the energy little simp boy. Run along now to mommy.
Whose mommy. Yours?
Such a pathetic child you are. Is that the best you could come up with? Your lane attempts to insult me, show how pathetic you really are.
Sorry I don’t have time to indulge your sexist rhetoric. Thank goodness for the women in here who pointing out. It’s been enjoyable watching you dig yourself in the hole.
Wow this thread is still hot?
L take InstinctDriven, cant relate. Also, now you’re just stating blatant lies. As far as “lol woman cant be plumber” More women than ever are in blue-collar careers and those women are just as capable as the men in those fields. I would say there are ways that women perform parts of these jobs better than men who perform them.
your expressions are not only divisive but misogynistic and rooted in the dynamics of a bygone era. These “ladies” aren’t seeking to diminish anything in men, they are defending themselves from bad (literally toxic) behavior from folks like OP and yourself that seek to undermine women’s independence only to ultimately blame them for the challenges you created for them.Fortunately, times are changing as the days for people being willing to accept those who act and talk like you are numbered. I hope you heal.
32 and from California, why am I not surprised. You’re from the literal birthplace of the simp and that weak man syndrome that has poisoned the world. I’m really not surprised at all that woman have taken up those blue collar roles where you live. It’s because they had to in order to survive. Certainly they can’t rely on boys like you to provide and protect. The evidence is all around you, women choosing not to be with weak men that they have to baby all the time. The ones that do want to baby a boy are doing so because he’s too weak to fend for himself and she likes that dynamic where she controls all.
Contrary to what you might think, there actually is a more global shift (the world doesn’t consist of only the US) happenings and the World is waking up to the fact that this toxic feminist / cissy boy ideology doesn’t serve anyone very well, and there’s a push back happening against it. But you stay in your blinkered holier than thou virtue signalling world – it’s safer there. Wouldn’t want the bogey man to get you now would we.
You can stay in your little bubble. Has zero effect on my world and I’m very content where I am. You do you and I’ll do me, but don’t come with that bollocks I’ll show him. I’ll eat you for breakfast. You’re not even a contest
Ah, I recognize the other country. Men whom hold their women down to ensure patriarchal rule. Your tell was obvious. Us so called simps from the USA have saved your bacon many times. You’re on your own here.
Maybe you’ll have a better outlook after your nappy.
I’m happy not to be anything like you Grogman. I see right through your fake facade, to what you truly are.
I’ll leave you all to your sycophantic ‘love in’ now. Won’t bother to engage further. Have fun.
Try to stay on topic here. All you’re doing is talking down about where I live and calling me names.. that last remark was straight up just threatening me. “you’re gonna eat me for breakfast”?.. Trust me, you know nothing about me and after listening to your words I guarantee you know very little about what it truly means to provide and protect anything including your sense of self. This “global shift” you’re referencing has two sides to it. And it’s not some “toxic feminist / cissy boy ideology”
that is pushing back on yours. its people everywhere in the world becoming more intolerant to others bigotry. the “bogey man” is in your head dude.By the way. “my little bubble is the 5th largest economy in the world” We’re gonna be just fine.
Do. Better.
Damn @instinctdrivengetting salty AF lol…I swear the losers on here always find a way to out themselves lol
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