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ABF/ANR Dating & Relationships
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I am new to the whole ABF thing. I was doing it for years before I actually knew it had a name!
I have a gentleman who wants to meet up but I do not know how to go about it! I know for sure to make sure a friend knows I am going out to meet someone new but I need ideas on what to do on a first meet.
What are your ideas on a first meet?
A short meet and greet in a public place, like for coffee or a drink, makes sense. If you both feel comfortable and want to, you can schedule another get-together. It’s always best to be up-front about what you are both looking for, the boundaries of the initial meeting and any future meetings.
Hi Hunted,
Mine may not be the most main stream and popular response so take it with a grain of salt. I am just not very comfortable inviting people I’ve just met on the internet to my home or going to theirs or a hotel. So I typically chat with them online for a while and if the vibe there is good, I will agree to meet with them, somewhere public like a coffee shop or lunch. If that goes well, we usually only spend maybe 30 minutes tops chatting at the table and either the vibe is off and we go out separate ways or we end up back in my car so he can lay in my lap across the backseat and nurse for an hour or two. Then we finish and he leaves. If the experience was good and we agree to meet again then we do, if not it was a wonderful experience for us both and we move on. I will usually meet with someone 3 or more times in person before inviting them to my home or going back to theirs. I just feel safer that way.
I’m the same way i just want to feed the whole world my tits I love it so much