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I have been thinking of expanding my search circle as it’s been difficult connecting with women in London.
Has anyone had an ANR (or anything similar) that was long-distance? Did it work, or was it difficult to maintain?
Very very few are looking for long distance. Most want city based. But there are some.
Goodluck!
I wonder what the general definition of “long distance” is, regarding a nursing relationship?
I get the feeling those in the USA are more willing to travel than those in the UK?
I’m from the US and I agree with what Michael said. I feel most Americans are more willing to make it work. Howeverrrr I have had a few emotional connections from the UK area. Very sweet (and handsome) men! The time difference is a little challenging is all.
Personally, if there is /effort/ for ANR/romance then I’m all game. I’m not going to be bending over backwards and investing my precious energy in a brick wall, you know? If the connection is right then Id be willing to sit down and talk about moving for the right one. Although, I do love the beach city I live in 💕 so we may need to compromise lol
LDR and ANR are manageable, like most things, you just have to be upfront with what you want and of course stand firm in your boundaries.
I had a successful connection a few states over and we would FaceTime to fill that gap. Ultimately, we wanted different type of commitments and separated amicably. It’s worth a shot to give it a go! I don’t regret it one bit
Good luck!
Depends on what you mean. “Long distance” . I live in central California. The ppl in the north (San fran/sac/modesto) are 4-5 hrs from me. They won’t travel. And i dont blame them. Not even a thought.to consider. The ppl in La 1-2 hours away… will NOT travel.
For me, it’s gotten to the point that he won’t travel. I am NOT interested or even entertaining the idea. You can’t form a dynamic and bond where one person is putting up the expenses to travel. Hotel /drive time is (they are essentially doing all the work ) and the other just “shows up” …for me it’s a 2 way street. I made it my own personal requirement, since noone lives by me.
But if you connected with someone and at some point want to move closer. It can happen. 🙂
Something to think about! 🥰
It all depends on connection, circumstances and willingness to make it happen.
First, you have to invest time and efforts to know each other. If there is a connection, then you can plan for meeting. Long distance relationship needs lot of patience and time. Over the time, I have seen few success couples.
I am in same situation. Have not found partner locally and so open for long distance.It can work but chances are low that it will. It depends on the couple.
I only see long distance being attainable if y’all are friends. Now a committed relationship may work, but I’d say very rarely, as it goes against our biology.
London is very well connected. A train to Birmingham is just over 1 hour and to Manchester just 2 hours. I’ve had people drive 2-3 hours to see me. That time can be reduced if you meet in the middle. Meeting a couple of times a month is nothing if you both want it enough and the connection is there.
Eu sou brasileira, acho que a única no site. Estou disposta a me mudar pela pessoa certa. Se a conexão online fluir e estabelecermos compromisso gostaria que a pessoa viesse me conhecer pessoalmente primeiro. Vejo nas redes sociais vários casais que se conheceram em App de relacionamento de países diferentes e fizeram dar certo. Não é fácil, mas vale o esforço!
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