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I’m not sure if this should be in the personals section or general discussion but here goes…
Due to my job and other things in my life I wouldn’t be able to have a ‘conventional’ ANR. But I would still like to meet someone for a pressure free friendship that includes suckling/nursing. I’m still curious about breastmilk however.
Are there women out there who have induced/are inducing on their own accord (or lactate otherwise) which also seek something like this? Something ‘semi regular’ with suckling?
It’s not selfish as long as you are upfront.
I have seen a couple of profiles on here describing that
As noted, as long as you are upfront in your wants and desires, all is fair.
The problem would be if you start to lactate you will need to release milk multiple times every day, or you will experience discomfort and even pain. It will be like having a second job. You’ll also need to use some kind of absorbent material to catch milk if it leaks, which it probably will at times.
But, and this is a huge but, if you are not pregnant or nursing now, starting lactation is a very difficult proposition. I’ve read a ton about it, had experience myself, and most of the time the only way women can start is by using the prescription drug domperidone, in addition to all the other consistent effort required.
And of course, your mileage may vary.
Thank you so much for asking this question, as it is the very reason that I have held back getting involved a lot with this website.
I am going through a mid-life transition (crisis is over, rebuilding has begun), and after reading some of the concerns from women here, I was reluctant to start up anything while I’m simultaneously putting my life back together.
I didn’t feel like it was fair to myself or the other person to get too connected at this point in my life–yet I wasn’t sure if there was any kind of “platonic nursing” (wow, that looks weird just typing out that phrase lol) that existed.
Honestly, it’s helped already on some level just to know that this website and this group of people exist–even if I’m not really involved at the moment. It feels good knowing that it’s always here, and now here I am making my first forum post (thank you for the encouraging advice, Treasure Chest!).
As stated by Harris and On to a new 1, being up front is very important, so I’m taking a chance and making my first public post here.
I’d like to say also that as long as its upfront and you both want the same thing then its fine but as has been said also, just a quick suckle once a week won’t be good for either party.
I also want to say to Telsa that getting into anr is great but if you are going through a breakup or your life is complicated at the moment then adding an anr relationship is quite dangerous in my opinion. If you are already emotional and you add the oxytocin, could be like adding napalm to a bbq 🙁
Just my opinion but good luck.I’ve seen two women in the UK on here who are lactating and seek the same as you.
Unfortunately you’re under their age preferences so you’re out of luck 😂
@stevept
I know. Despite approaching my 30s and having a career I’m still seen as a child to most women into ABF.
Perhaps I should start drinking scotch and tune into LBC News and BBC Radio 4. That may prove my maturity.
Don’t forget the top hat and pipe 😉
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