Is it just me? Friendship requests…..

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  • #12471
    Anonymous
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    Why am I getting friendship requests from people I have no idea who they are? Friendship requests would indicate some level of knowledge of the person you are requesting that from, wouldn’t it? Why would I accept a request from someone who doesn’t even have the common courtesy of having a conversation, an email introducing themselves, prior to asking for friendship??? If you are wondering why I am not accepting….. there ya go!

    #12472
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    It appears some on here are friend collectors and have no intention on developing a connection with someone.

    Whatever works for them.

    #12473
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    This happens all the time on FB, I’ll get requests from randomers.

    #12477
    Karamel Latte
    Participant
    • Female
    • Looking for: Male
    • United Kingdom

    Random friend requests and messages saying “hi” from people with 3 word profiles. I have to admit I do accept everyone but reading your post it’s got me thinking I should do the same.

    #12478
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    i agree. but maybe they want to become your friend that is why they are requesting your friendship

    #12479
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    Because they have shoe-size IQ’s?

    Because they’re not genuine; ergo, disingenuous as hell and plain as day about it?

    Because they think all women have shoe size IQ’s like theirs?

    I don’t know, but take your pick. There’s probably more stupid reasons, too.

    Forward as we can be though, they still don’t listen and keep doing it anyway. I’m used to it now. I just reject them all unless it’s somebody I’ve enjoyed chatting with for at least a week.

    99% ONLY want pics for their “spank bank”, but want to have some amount of cybersex at the same time (wasting your time, of course). It’s that simple.

    #12481
    Michael_Admin
    Keymaster
    • Male
    • Looking for: Female
    • United Kingdom

    I recommend adding a VERY CLEAR statement to the About Me section of your profile, stating you do not wish to receive unsolicited friends-requests. Following that, if you continue to receive any then contact me with names, I will warn/delete accounts as appropriate.

    Of course, this will not solve the issue, but it will make a few people think twice.

    I have added a warning to the FAQs page to reflect this.

    #12482
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    I saw that, Michael. Thanks.

    Maybe I’ll shoot you a name from time to time, bc if they’re doing it to me, they’re probably spamming others, too.

    Some include an obviously standardized, copied and pasted message that’s not particular to anyone’s profile. These are just various forms of insults, but they’re not considerate enough to see it. Either that or they think women aren’t looking for these kinds of all-too common tactics… worse yet, they think we’re dumber than they are.

    #12483
    Michael_Admin
    Keymaster
    • Male
    • Looking for: Female
    • United Kingdom

    Yep, please message me anytime, most guys doing this will be doing it to all and sundry. I have no problem with simply removing such people from this site.

    #12484
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    Where’s a thumbs up emoji when I need one? lol

    #12486
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    👍 😁

    #12490
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    I agree!!! I don’t collect friends unless I am interested!!!

    #12493
    Nate
    Participant
    • Male
    • Looking for: Female
    • USA
    • Florida

    👍😎

    #12499
    Morgan
    Participant
    • Female
    • Looking for: Male & Female
    • USA
    • Missouri

    A Million 👍 for this post and our Admin!!!

    #12505
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    9 out of 10 of the males on this site will never get to have an encounter with a female from this site. More likely 99 out of 100. This cold screen is the closest we’ll ever get to a breastfeeding “relationship.”

    I make quite a few friend requests. I guess that makes me a “collector.” I look at is as a sort of acknowledgement that I am a kindred, ANR spirit. Usually something about the profile has resonated with me. Or some of the photos impressed me as particularly fine specimens of the female form. What a pathetic human being. How superior you must be.

    I have no qualms about masturbating to the image of an attractive woman. I have tried pictures of cacti but it just wasn’t getting the job done. I’m sure none of you fellas have ever “spanked.”

    All you females who feel so put upon for having to press the decline button or block button, someday you will be just as sexy and feminine as me; a soon to be 60 year old man. Eeeeeeeew. You won’t get a first look from an attractive male, let alone a second look.

    And you males who chime in just to ingratiate yourselves to the females….. disappointing.
    Michael can’t you make it so these females can turn off their friend request buttons?

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